I’m a freshman living in on campus and I’m trying to figure out the best way to go about changing roommates/rooms. I’ve looked through some older posts on here but wanted to ask what the process is actually like, especially if anyone has done it recently.
Basically, I originally had a different roommate who I was matched with based on the housing preferences, but around a week before move in he got switched out (I was never notified or told why) and I randomly got assigned my current roommate without really being aware it was happening. I’m assuming at that point there was a pretty small pool of people to choose from, because our living preferences are pretty much complete opposites.
He's a chill dude and there isn't any beef between us. We just don't really connect or talk much and have very different ideas of what we want our room to be like. I prefer a quiet, private room without many guests and generally like having my own space. He prefers more noise/activity, likes having people over and playing instruments, and we also have pretty different preferences when it comes to things like room temperature and the overall room environment.
I know MSU recommends doing the Living Agreement and talking to your RA, but the thing is I don't really want to make him change how he wants to live either because its not really his fault either for him being swapped for my original roommate. I don't think he's doing anything wrong, and I don't think I'm doing anything wrong. We just aren't a good roommate match. Making a bunch of rules that favor what I want would probably just make him unhappy instead.
I'd honestly rather move and hopefully both of us end up with roommates who fit our lifestyles better. I'm not expecting a single or a specific building either (although a single would be preferred.) I'd be fine moving to another normal double if that's what it takes.
For anyone who's successfully changed rooms/roommates at MSU, what was the best way to go about it? Should I start with my RA, contact the Community Director, wait for the room change waitlist, try finding someone to swap with, or do multiple things at once?
Also, if your situation was just roommate incompatibility rather than a serious conflict, did MSU still work with you? How long did it take to actually move?