r/Libya • u/Forsaken_Slice461 • 46m ago
Culture Why being born & growing up in Libya has been one of the worst experiences of my life
There is no real system it’s just chaos and no one teaches you how to do things there is no guidelines what considers to be in one city and the other city others to be. Shameful.
0 spaces for individual freedom. You are expected to live according to what society considers Halal or Haram. personal choices can become a social issue.
Any thinking outside of the box or the accepted way of thinking is quickly judged.
There is one dominant view of reality: we are the victims.
All type of conspiracy theories from government to foreigner power to Cousins, who are trying to catch you spell on you.
Obedience and absolute control is taught from a very young age. Obey your parents. “رضى الوالدين "
Emotional manipulation is normalized. "بلادك هيا بلادك" "معزز مكرم
Everyone has an opinion about your life. What you wear, how to talk, who you talk to, where you go, what you do. Your life.
Individuality is forbidden. If you want to live differently, people can see it as disrespecting the family, religion, culture, or society. "البس كما يعجبك و كول زي ما ياكلوا الناس"
There is a strong culture of shame. "حي** *شن* *بيقلو* *عليا* *الناس"*
The hardest part of this all from the day you were born, you’re giving very little chance to be a real human other than you’re just another member of the society.
This is obviously my personal experience. I’m curious if other Libyans, feel the same way.