About me:

There are pictures of me on my profile 🥺

• Dominican-American
• College Student/barista
• 5’6 and 241lbs (just putting my weight out there because I know some people are picky with that)
• Very shy at first once I'm comfortable with someone, I start yapping a lot😅
• Love reading, cooking/baking when I have the time and playing video games
• I have never dated before but I only like talking to a one person at a time (never had my first kiss and I’m still a virgin)
• I'm looking for a serious relationship
• Down for anything
• I don't smoke and I don't use drugs
• I don’t want kids at all
• I don’t share at all
• I have tattoo and piercings
• I also have two cats and two dogs

Looking for:

• Patient and understanding
• Taller than 5’9
• Age: 25-33
• Knows what they want
• Doesn’t want kids or doesn’t want anymore kids
• Someone who only has eyes for me and only me

if you have read all of this and are interested, please tell me a little bit about yourself and also included in your message “blue cat” so I know that you have read all of this.

hey there.

i am not certain if it is the spring fever getting a hold of my sanity or just the usual yearning for an unexpected connection but regardless of the cause, i am here now.

what i love the most about life is music (Rory Gallagher, Donovan, The K¡nks, Sparks, Peter Hammill, Bert Jansch, The The, Orange Juice, The Magnetic Fields) so it's only fair to be wanting someone who shares my passion, preferably a musician.

other things i love are long walks (my personal limit right now is 40 km), colour green, collecting vintage objects and bitching about life to each other.

i dislike sexism, pumpkins, spoons, beards, mornings, people yelling and cold weather.

my preferred age limit is 28-33.

Hi there! I’m 26F in Phoenix, AZ. I am seeking someone in Arizona. I am looking for something serious !! In person only.

About me: 26F, office job, cat. Leftist, monogamist, childfree. I am plus-size (5’6”, 230 lbs) and white/asian (but look white). Currently living with my family (cannot host shenanigans). I enjoy baking, music and concerts, video games, crafting, and going new places.

Ideally looking for: someone local to Arizona. someone who is also leftist, monogamist, and childfree. Someone who is interested in building up to a relationship. I prefer thin/fit/average, and looking for someone who is 32 or younger!

Some more fun info to sound less intense: I love cozy gaming and grew up on farming sims. I would love a horror/thriller movie cuddle buddy. I work in science!

Feel free to send me a message or chat (:

I'm honestly getting a bit desperate and starved for romantic attention, so here goes.

I'm an average build, around 130-140 pounds, still have an hourglass-ISH figure, and i've been on T for almost 3 years. I present completely masculine. I am more attracted to older men and not really interested in anyone under 25. Also if you're a chaser or identify as straight, leave me the hell alone ty!

I've not been in a relationship or really done anything yet because i'm not in a great area for someone like myself, lol.

I'm a digital artist and kind of novice animator, I really love Pokémon and collect all sorts of things pertaining to it! I play TCG live and most of the console games DS and onward. I would love someone who also enjoys Pokémon or at least is willing to let me yap and gush about it sometimes, it's a long standing comfort for me.

I currently work for an animator and am starting to sell my art at local events and getting more comfortable around people.

Small rapid fire of some things I enjoy:

Bugs (I want to photograph them)

Puppets. If you are a puppeteer i'm already in love with you.

Games (I have played): Hollow Knight, Yokai Watch (1 and 2), Cult of the Lamb, Pokémon (a lot of them), Monster Hunter (3U and Stories 1 and 2), Undertale, Animal Crossing, Lobotomy Corporation, Dead by Daylight, Tomodachi Life, Dandy's World (you can judge me)

Games (I want to play): The Binding of Isaac (which I do own now if you maybe want to watch me play blind :P), Mewgenics, Fear and Hunger (1 and 2), Monster Hunter Stories 3, Library of Ruina, Limbus Company, Ultrakill

Movies: Sinners, The Backrooms, The Substance, Fantastic Mr. Fox, You are Umasou, Spirited Away, The Boy and The Heron, most of the 2D Disney films. I am the one guy who likes The Good Dinosaur, you found me.

Music: System of a Down, Serj Tankian, Scars on Broadway, Tardigrade Inferno, Jhariah, Lemon Demon, mewithoutYou. My favorite songs are In A Sweater Poorly Knit - mewithoutYou, Asphodelos - Ariabl'eyeS, and Dandelion - Bump of Chicken

There's a few shows I like (Baki, Mob Psycho 100, Rick and Morty [shamefully], Smiling Friends, The Pitt, Abbott Elementary) but I mainly watch Youtube anymore.

I love cats (I have a silly black cat named Kaizo!), I love fish, and I really want pet snakes.

There's a lot of other games I play and things I enjoy, but I think it'd be more natural to talk and engage about that with each other.

I also do drink occasionally, I want to get better at pool and do bar karaoke! But, I have no one to do those things with 💔.

Some other things I want to mention are my ongoing struggles with my mental health. Namely ADHD, but sometimes it's hard for me to be present and to bring myself or even remember to message people. I will always do my best but I would appreciate someone proactive about it and who genuinely wants to talk to me. I am actively trying to get on meds but I think Geisinger is trying to turn me into the Joker! :D

Don't know if I should include this but the kind of relationship dynamic I want is a domestic and sweet older man to step up for. Taking care of each other but I want to make someone feel like the king of the world and take them to a fancy dinner no matter how dumb it may look. But I mean if you want to take care of me i'm not opposed to that ;v; I lowkey want people to stare at us and think "What a nightmare". I will be your himbo boy and accomplish nothing but you WILL be my world.

(...My life has been hell, let me have this >:') )

I hope you find my disorganization and overuse of the word "really" endearing. 🐱

I feel like I’m losing time trying to find someone genuine. Is there anybody that’s seeking a real relationship?

Low effort DMs will be ignore

Monogamous : Serious Inquiries Only

Hello and thank you for stopping by.

I’m a 28-year-old woman with deep roots in Florida and a culturally rich background that includes Black, Asian, and some European heritage. I’m at a point in life where I’m no longer interested in short-term connections, I’m genuinely ready to find my life partner and build a lasting, faith-centered family.

I value mutual respect, kindness, and authentic communication. I’m open to becoming a stay-at-home w or mother, but I’m flexible and willing to adapt based on our shared vision for the future. Though my main goal is to be a SAHW/M and I hope that I can find a man who’d provide that lifestyle. I’ve experienced the pain of being with someone who disrespected my mother, so it’s incredibly important to me that you value and respect my mother, as she plays a key role in my life. I seek to build a deep connection beyond the surface. I just want to confirm that we are on the same page when it comes to respect.

What I’m Looking For:

• A man who is monogamous, emotionally mature, and communicates clearly (ghosting is a deal-breaker)

• Someone with traditional male values, who leads with integrity, honor, and strength

• A God-fearing \*\*\*Christian man\*\*\* who isn’t ashamed of his faith and lives it boldly

• Respectful, grounded, and committed to self-improvement

• A man who can make me laugh until my sides hurt (dark humor and dry wit welcome)

• Someone who takes health seriously—physically fit or actively working toward fitness goals

• No smoking, no illegal substances, and free of STIs

• Willing to meet and get along with my family

• Must be over 23 and of White or East Asian descent

• Financially Stable

A Bit About Me:

I’m introspective, passionate, and adventurous. I enjoy the outdoors, discovering historical landmarks, and learning new things. I’m also incredibly visual and expressive, I love doing voice impressions and have a strong appreciation for both dark and lighthearted humor.

In my downtime, you’ll find me singing, gaming (I’m big on RPGs, FPS, and simulation games), listening to rock and heavy metal, journaling, or sipping cocoa while enjoying nature. I also care deeply about skincare and sustainability.

Career-wise, I’m currently navigating my path forward. I have a background in healthcare and am working toward a future in medical laboratory science or a similar field. My faith in God helps guide me, and I strive to remain thankful and grounded through life’s ups and downs.

If you’re someone who’s looking for a deep, lasting connection built on faith, love, and mutual respect, I’d love to hear from you.

About Me: Kyla (she/her), 20, trans girl from Germany 💕

Hey! I’m Kyla — a sapphic trans girl looking for something real, whether that starts close to home or long distance. I’m open to both, and I’d love to see where things go with the right person.

A little about me: I’m someone who loves getting lost in video games, trying out new recipes in the kitchen, reading, watching shows, and just yapping for hours with people I click with. I’m also into nail art, alternative fashion, music, geography, sports, and esports — honestly, I have a lot of interests and love learning about new things, especially if you want to teach me about yours.

I care deeply about the people in my life. I'm romantic at heart and not shy about showing it — you'll know when I'm into you. I'm honest (without being mean about it), mature when it counts, and I respect boundaries completely. I'm also curious — about the world, about you, about whatever makes you tick. I might be an introvert, but I still make time for the people who matter to me, and I’ll text you multiple times a day.

A Little Honesty Up Front:

I want to be real with you, because honesty matters to me. I’ve struggled with long-term depression due to bullying in my past, and I’m currently not working while I work through that. I’m working on getting myself to a better place, but it's a process. I'm also someone who can become emotionally dependent on people I care about — I'm aware of it and trying to manage it. I live in Germany and would be open to moving eventually once I'm financially able.

I’m patient, though sadly a little emotionless at times due to my depression. I'm very liberal and a feminist, and childhood trauma is part of my story too. I’m not sharing all of this to scare anyone off — just so you know who I am from the start.

What I'm Looking For:

· Someone single and interested in monogamy (I'm not into non-monogamy)

· Between 18 and 25

· Ideally you share some of my interests, but it's totally okay if you don't — I'd love to learn about yours

· Someone who can actually hold a conversation — ask questions, show interest, put in effort. I won't be the only one doing that

· Someone genuinely interested in getting to know me and who has time to text multiple times a day

· Someone who loves texting and is eventually open to calls and meeting in person one day

· Someone who accepts me as I am — please don't come into my life trying to change me. That's not fair to either of us

If you're interested, please don't just say "hey, how are you?" — I probably won't reply. Instead, introduce yourself and respond to something I actually wrote. Show me you read this and that you're genuinely curious.

Hope you have a lovely day, and maybe I'll hear from you soon 💕

**About Me**

**Background & Education:** Based in Canada, I hold two master's degrees and work in the tech industry. Friends frequently tell me I look younger than my age.

**Lifestyle:** I live a calm, stable, and well-considered life. My free time is spent volunteering, listening to music, watching long-form podcasts on YouTube, and traveling when the right opportunity arises
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**Core Values:** For me, basic human decency and care for animals are not optional extras—they are my absolute baseline.

**Intentions:** I am not here to casually pass the time or experiment. I approach dating with structure, clarity, and absolute intention, seeking something real and unambiguous.

**What I Am Looking For**
**Demographics:** A man aged **37 or younger** (preference )living in **Canada or the USA can consider Europe if you have a plan.** I am open to an initial long-distance relationship if we mutually work toward closing the distance.
**Professional Status:** Well-educated, professionally established, and clear-minded with his life firmly together.
**Outlook & Values:** Secular in outlook, open to diverse backgrounds, and respectful.

**Relationship History & Intimacy (Non-Negotiable):** Someone who has **never been wedded and has also been saving himself**. This point is literal, non-symbolic, and entirely non-negotiable.

**How to Connect**
I am not interested in endless, directionless messaging, requests for photos, or sexual content. If you are genuine and ready to move forward with pragmatic plans, and a real time sync, please reach out with:
Your **age, location, career, culture, and religious background**
Your own **relationship preferences**
A **direct confirmation** that you meet my non-negotiable criteria.

Everyone has unique values shaped by their culture and personal journey; I ask for mutual respect and a strict **no-judgment policy** regarding my boundaries, as I genuinely wish the same peace for yours.

I’m open to dating anyone in the USA only .
Hey, so firstly I’m at the stage in my life where I want a long term serious relationship. I’m not usually the one to take it very slow as it leads to know where. Let’s game and mic chat to see how it goes.

Only here to date and possible have a relationship. Please don’t dm me asking to be anything less that that

I am looking for a guy who is (below)

Single

Masculine features(any body type is fine) I just prefer men with beards. Doesn’t mean I don’t like anyone clean shaven. I’m pretty open :3

Monogamous

communicative

loyal + honest

nerdy

⁃ Dedicated to a future relationship and also your own goals

⁃ Someone who would want to live together after years of being together.

someone open to all ethnicities since we can’t choose the color of our skin.

My Appearance⬇️

A thick / kinda chubby ( SLIGHTLY ONE) femboi . My voice is very feminine and my personality , who loves dressing up sometimes . Not trans and not a fantasy of yours. I’m just a human being not an experiment 🤗

I’m BLACK! I love dating other cultures as well as my own. I do not discriminate and I would prefer you DO NOT EITHER! No one chose there skin color so that shouldn’t be a factor but lately it seems my skin color is the DECIDING FACTOR SO if you don’t like the color of my skin please do not DM ME!

no tattoos or piercing on me

⁃Height : 5’3. I’m a fun size introvert

⁃Personality : It keeps changing lol BUT I’m a shy otaku and I’m super SHY! Like i would look at the ground speaking since I’m just that shy nerd. I’m very friendly and outgoing but if you get me into an anime con I’m an extrovert …actually I’m both lol I changed my mind while typing LOL.

Nerdy + Loyal + honest +authentic

My hobbies: (I have Way More)

Anime (Tv, Movies, ect ) MyAnimeList is too long .

Manga (don’t get me started on YAOI

Gaming (OW2, Marvel Rivals, Helldivers2, Pokemon, ect .

Horror nerd

TCG player (Yu-Gi-Oh)

Cosplaying(I’ve done a few)

Don’t let distance limit your thinking, anything is possible.

✅Ps: for compatibility reasons I’m a 100% bottom.⬇️

If you choose to message me, which I hope you will, please send a nice introduction about yourself. You may send photos if you’d like . I will not respond to “hi” or “ hey” or “what’s up” with nothing included. First impressions are always important , show some effort please . SEND A FULL INTRODUCTION . I will not respond short messages . If you ready this far please tell me an introduction about yourself, age, state you live in and your hobbies and anything you felt that was common interests

Hi my Name is Leon and i want a Monogamous Relationship that lasts.

I'm looking for someone who i can truly love and appreciate, someone who likes me for who i am and isn't afraid to communicate clearly. I've never been in a relationship because it didnt click with the women i dated and im not the type of guy for a one nighter.

My Appearance:

Im 1.80

Brown Hair (bald with beard)

Brown eyes

A bit chubby on the waist and upper leg area

My hobbies are gaming and collecting stuff like Figures. I play a wide variety of story and online games on the PS5 but also have a (very bad) PC.

I also draw quite alot, mostly in a comic book style like Marvel or DC but i want to learn things like classical oilpainting 'n stuff like that.

I also begun to hit the gym, to get in shape and gain a physical physique i can be proud of.

I like women who can express themselves and show that she's interested. I dont like when i am the only one that keeps the datingphase alive.

i'm a bit shy but if we are on the same wavelenght, the ice breaks quite fast and i talk like a waterfall.

I hope you like what you see, and i would love to hear from you.

Hi everyone!! im a 19 year old male thats straight and im fairly muscular (im on pst). Im very excited to talk and i dont typically lag! I wanna have a good connection with someone who can call and text whenever. I like to play video games like fortnite but im open to downloading other games to play with you! I also like to ice skate. Im a really good listener and will listen to you yap, i have lots of love thst i want to give to someone whos willing. Please text me i can really brighten up your day!

Ill tell you all about me in dms!! Im a very open person tbh

Reposting so I am sorry if you have to see this!

Hello! I’ve decided to post here and see what’s out there, looking forward to chat and get to know someone.Looking for a specific chemistry with someone, that specific dynamic that is a mix between respect and fun.

First of all I am healthy, I workout throughout the week and I take care of how I look and what I eat so I do expect you to be on the same level.

About me;
1 I enjoy doing Yoga and cardio so much.
2 I’m 5’5 brown hair brown eyes, fit skinny, olive skin and curly hair.
3 I love going out, drinking outside and going on photography trips.
4 I like collecting dolls and Legos
5 My biggest passion is reading books My recent books are Great Expectations, Água Viva, The Myth of Sisyphus, The undiscovered self and some of Stefan zewig. I absolutely hate poorly written plots but I always fall for thriller book but that’s during slow days. I also enjoy some politics books.
6 I enjoy having a conversation with a smart, thoughtful man :)
7 very supporting and loving person

About you!
1 Respectful and you enjoy sharing a conversation with someone rather then talking about yourself
2 You know how to hold a conversation and ask questions. you’re not dry and you’re interested in what you doing.

3 27-33 and you’re single
4 someone who wants to be consistent with me

Please! Send me an intro of yourself regarding everything about you :)

hello!! my name is cam (they/he) and I’m 26 year old masculine nonbinary person.

[Personal]
• I have two cats, Apollo and Ares, both of which I rescued from the streets and absolutely spoil! I have rescued and rehomed seven cats so far this year.
• I am into a lot of nerdy hobbies. Video games (Diablo-likes, path of exile, MMOs, Fortnite, simulator games, farming and dating sims) and love to play and meet other people!
• I’m also a big trading card, board game, and TTRPG person! It’s a huge part of my life and how I have always met people and connected with strangers plus it’s something I pride myself in being very good at. Mainly MTG, Riftbound, Yugioh, and (collecting) pokemon.
• I love the outdoors! I’m planning a camping trip this year and love to hike, go for walks, and am trying to find time to get back into running.
• I’m a creative! I’ve always written as a hobby but am trying to get back into art/sculpting after basically devoting my life to work and school over the last decade or so.
• Being queer is a large part of my identity and something that’s very important to me! I mentor queer kids during the some and am very outspoken about the LGBTQ community and especially LGBTQ politics.
•I just bought a rather large and historic house that I’m working on restoring while I live in it.

[Professional]
• I have two degrees! A BS in Political Science and an MPA in Public Administration. I’d like to eventually go back for another masters, a Juris Doctorate, or a PhD but am waiting for when I get more settled into my current career before I decide. I love academia and being engaged with it so it’ll always be a huge part of my life!
• I work a fairly high profile job that I will be cagey about releasing details on to protect some amount of anonymity! Essentially I am the director of operations for a small public affairs conglomerate, but it’s much more interesting than that I promise!
• Volunteering is super important to me! I serve on a number of Boards, Commissions, Committees, etc etc and give a lot of time to my local community!
• I have a decent salary now with a very high ceiling, which I plan to pursue as I am very ambitious!

Hello there! I’m basically looking for someone to talk to, play online games together (prolly spent too much on games than I should have 🥲) and potentially date in the future if vibes match. A little bit about me:

I’m an academically driven person with several scholastic achievements, currently doing my Masters in Artificial Intelligence from one of the best institutes in the country. I am also a passionate SBL and a Powerlifter. I love exploring the countryside, new restaurants and eating some great food. More about me (physical traits) once we connect. I don’t mind exchanging pics either once we know sufficiently well about each other.

Looking for someone genuine who can hold conversations, is ambitious and preferably likes working out (I could coach you fr if you wanna start). My previous relationship ended around 4 years back. I have been working on myself ever since and lately I have been feeling quite lonely so hmu if you think we could have a good time together! 🤙

Edit: You do not necessarily have to be from India. I’m unable to edit the post title for some reason :/

Hey. My name is Julian and I am here, like all of us, to search for a relationship.

About me: 32, born and raised in Germany, 1,78m tall (5'10) and chubby. Brown hair, beard, glasses, blue eyes. Feel free to ask me for pictures.
Shy, introverted, big time overthinker. Mostly sarcastic, kind most of the time, weird mix of dark and juvenile humour. Depressed but working on it. I don't drink, smoke or do any sort of drugs. I'm a winter person (with a winter birthday) and don't like summer/heat. Non-vegetarian/vegan, atheist and left-leaning politically.
I speak English and German, might learn other languages in the future. I'm a trained chemist with a bsc in chemistry. Some would call that educated. Know how to drive a car and motorbike. I go to the gym to work on my weight and currently try to do that more regularly after a big motivation crisis.
I only have a few, mostly homebody, hobbies. Gaming (mostly Singleplayer), reading (nowadays mostly fantasy) and watching streams/videos. Feel free to suggest me a nice hobby I would maybe enjoy, I have been searching for one for a while. My taste of music is mostly Rock/Alternative Rock. Haven't travelled in a while but would want to. Especially to Japan, Canada and Northern Europe.
I do like cats a lot. Grew up in a dog family but switched to cats now.
Most important is that I am childfree. I don't have or want children. I do have my reasons and you can ask about them if you want to. Feel also free to ask about my red flags.

Who I am searching for: Most important point here is that she should also not have or want children ever. Age range of 25 to 35. Height doesn't matter to me. Nationality doesn't matter as well, I'm fine with any. Religion doesn't matter as long as you don't try to convert me. I do think that physical attraction matters (and I have clear preferences) and I would want to see/exchange pictures fairly early to see if we would fit. Someone in or around Germany or wanting to move here would be nice. I currently don't plan to move to another country. Other than that I don't have anything else that is needed. Just come as you are but please don't come with spiders. I have arachnophobia.
I do, however, imagine this relationship to not be codependent. We should still be individuals doing our own things, partners that support each other in whatever we do. For that reason I also don't want someone that is too clingy.

Now if you have any more questions, want to get to know me or think you know someone that would, feel free to write me or share my post. I hope you have a great day.

Wanted to give this a try and hopefully meet someone I can build a real connection with. I’m 24, based in Germany and thought I'd start by sharing a little bit about myself. I'm 180 cm tall, with a muscular build, dark hair. I take care of myself. but my dress is usually just clean and casual, nothing flashy. Personality wise I'm easy going and reliable. My humor is dry but I can sometimes be goofy. Grew up religious, left that behind, no issue if you didn’t.

Things I'm interested in: * Languages (fluent in German, English and Russian, currently working on French) * Favorite animals are cats, birds, racoons * Astrology (I'm a Taurus sun, Scorpio rising, Gemini moon) * Spirituality / meditation / philosophy (curious about your take) I’ve also become increasingly interested in Hinduism and its philosophy, particularly ideas around spirituality, consciousness and the nature of the self. I’m still learning, so I’d be curious to hear your perspective. * Watching movies and shows: horror, crime, thrillers, into anime as well * Reading (rare, but when it happens it’s about science or philosophy) * Music (I like all kinds of music but I'm especially drawn to kpop and Rnb)

Looking for someone who actually wants to date, not just chat forever. Kindness, curiosity, and the ability to laugh at yourself go a long way. Prefer starting online, maybe calls later, and meeting up if it feels right. Open to LDR if there’s a realistic chance of meeting.

Dealbreakers: * People who only want surface level chat * People who are only looking for buddies * Being disrespectful * Wanting children * Not attracted to curvy people, sorry

If you’re 18+, can handle an introvert with niche hobbies, and think we could be a good match, feel free to dm me, tell me something about yourself.

I'm happy being alone. I'm happy when there's someone around that I connect with. I miss loving and being loved.

I live a very quiet life with my kitties. I prefer it. it wasn't always this way, but I'll focus on who I am now.

I think kindness is the most important thing, both towards yourself and others. I spread it as much as I can.

I like reading, coffee, and bubble baths. I work a pretty low-stress job and I'm planning on going back to school.

I'm around 5'10" and on the injections for weight loss. I have a lot of tattoos and long, wavy hair. I should wear my glasses more often than I do.

I have a dissociative disorder called depersonalization/derealization, but it's mostly under control. I go to therapy regularly and take medication.

I prioritize a solid sleep schedule and healthy choices in general. I'm focused on making progress and taking care of myself.

ideally I'd love to find someone who also wants a wholesome, nurturing relationship. I can't wait to meet you.

Hey :)

In general I am a homebody but I can be very active and enthusiastic, I find joy in a lot of things and experiences, especially if I am with someone who does too! I am anxious sometimes, I need someone who would be okay with that.

I am introverted. But once I'm comfortable, I can talk for hours. I like being silly and clingy when I feel safe. But I am not a group person and will not go to social meetups. I prefer it being you and me. I am loving and remember all the small things. I am pretty direct, I do have strong opinions and can stand up for myself.

I love hiking and being in nature, working out, I enjoy traveling and learning about new cultures. I am into movies, music, animals, vegan food, design, looking at architecture/museums/art, going to spas. I like deep talk and I like being weird, talking about nonsense as well :) I can spend my time gaming from time to time too. I am fond of people who don't care about what other people think.

I am pretty, I have brown hair, fit, thin, 176 cm tall! I can speak german and english. I would like to get to know someone slowly and not rush into anything.

It is important for me to find someone kind and empathetic who makes it a priority to protect me. Since I take care of my health, I'd want someone who is health conscious too, it is a plus if you do any kind of sport.

Dealbreakers: smoking, meat lover, bad hygiene, smaller than me, very religious, wants children.

If you write me please tell me a bit about yourself and go into detail :)

If you find similarities and want to be friends dm me too <3

~The Basics~ 

Call me Val! I’m a sex neutral (but generally uninterested) asexual lady (dubious) living in a small town in Northern Oklahoma! I classify myself as a nerd (more later) and kind of a home body but I’m usually up for an adventure if I have someone to drag me along on them.

I’m a bit on the plush side, only 5’1” and a brunette. Pictures can be sent via discord if we like each other enough to move the convo there! 

I am looking for something long term only- friends are welcome but I’m definitely after a relationship mainly so please keep that in mind when sending me a message. 

My age range is around 28 to 45 give or take a year or so! When messaging me please send more than just your age and location! 

~Location~

I am open to long distance! USA only though- I can only do long distance so long as there’s opportunities for us to meet up a few times during the year. I would be remiss if I didn’t also add that I am more than willing to move if things work out… but that is for future relationship business, not the meeting phase. 

~More Info~ 

• I’m pretty left leaning but generally keep politics out of my conversations because I’m not a good debater. I have very strong opinions on things but the moment anyone tries to challenge me I have a bad habit of shutting down, so tend to just… not talk about it.
• I’m not religious. I generally consider myself to be atheist with some agnostic leanings. I think reincarnation would be nice if anything does exist.
• I personally am not interested in having my own children but I’m not against the idea of being a spare parent for someone else's.
• I’m a huge animal lover! I have one cat that lives with me and two more pets I had to leave at home with my dad when I moved into my apartment. My pets are the loves of my life so I can’t be with anyone who isn’t also an animal lover or allergic to cats/dogs.
• I’m a pretty big nerd! I watch plenty of anime and love to game! I’m a PC gamer with a steam catalog full of co-ops, survival crafts, and cute little farming games. My top five are probably Deep Rock Galactic, Abiotic Factor, Cult of the Lamb, Enshrouded, and Valheim and I am praying for the love of the universe that someone will play these with me! An honorable mention would also be Stardew Valley but it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. I have over 1500 hours in ARK Survival Evolved. It’s an abusive relationship I keep going back to.
• I’m an artist!!! Sometimes. Not often anymore. But I do love drawing and character design. I roleplay every once in awhile using my vast collection of ocs and enjoy shipping my babies with the ocs of my friends. Biiiig bonus points if you’re also a roleplayer/character artist!
• As it will quickly become apparent after talking to me, I am also a furry! It’s very casual. I don’t own a fursuit (can’t afford it) and I’ve never been to a con (no one to go with) and I don’t make it my whole personality (just half) but it stems from a deep love of Sonic the Hedgehog and I will never be ashamed of that. 
• I enjoy reading. I mostly read at work to pass the time (my job is boring) and am currently on book three of Dungeon Crawler Carl. Which I started reading because…
• I listen to Podcasts! My favorites are Distractible (where I learned about the book series) and another called The Last Podcast on the Left. I enjoy putting them on for background noise when I game or draw. 
• I like horror movies and watching other people play horror games. Please play horror games for me, I'm too chicken to play them myself!
• Last but not least, I also play MTG extremely casually. I have two commander decks but one of them is a precon. I’m not good at it but I do find it fun. I have a horse deck I wanna buy someday so I finally have some horses to hold.

I…. Think that about covers it? Please feel free to message me! I work nights and keep strange hours because of it so if I don’t reply right away I’m usually either working or sleeping. My days off are Tuesdays and Wednesdays! Peace out ✌️

Hey there, and thank you for taking the time to read my post!

Upfront, I'm a mess. I'm flawed with many imperfections. That being said, I'm not asking you to be perfect either. If we're both a mess, let's be one pile of it together instead.

In all seriousness, I've been battling loneliness for quite some time now. I'm intimately aware of how loud silence can be. That being said, I also know how powerful human connection is. Were it not for my friends and family, I wouldn't have gotten as far as I have.

But I'm at a stage in life where I'm sick of the waiting, the searching, false positives, and finally want to meet my other half. To build, nurture and foster a relationship that's worth caring about, worth going the extra distance for.

With that in mind, what trouble are you getting into if you decide to give me a shot?

- I'm deeply interested and drawn to science, science positivity and enrichment. I also have a keen interest in language, culture, technology and nature.

- I'm introverted (shocker, I know), a bit of a worrywart, maybe an overthinker. Definitely.

- I love to write, draw, build worlds and I'm striving to share my projects with the world some day.

- I care a lot about the little things, the minutia, learning each other's idiosyncrasies.

- I have a deep yearning to love and be loved. Perhaps that's not quite a shocking revelation, nor an uncommon desire, but it forms a core part of my personality.

- I like to go into detail. I don't mind sending an avalanche of text nor receiving it. Writing for over a decade like I have, text communication is my jam. Words matter a lot to me and I can vividly connect and form a bond with someone if our way of expressing is similar.

- I care to be someone's protector. I care to spoil them, to make them feel not only truly cherished and loved, but seen and heard. In my heart, I mesh with someone who in equal part can be my 'partner in crime', as much as she would love to spend a peaceful, quiet, calm day together.

- Communication means a lot to me. Having someone with whom I can go on for hours from the most serious, thought-provoking talks, to the absolute daftest and silliest of topics, finding someone like that would be a dream come true. I know a lot about a lot, and I love to share and in equal part learn as well.

That having been said, I'll make my main requirement clear here before going further: I'm only interested in connecting with another European, aka someone from Europe. I can't do drastic long distance. I hope you can understand.

If you're still here past that point, then I only ask that you make an effort (one which would come from my end as well) to get to know each other.

I know introductions are hard, awkward, I freaking suck at them. But if there's one benefit to this type of first contact, is that we're able to take our time, able to get to know one another without pressure. That also doesn't mean I enjoy a snail's pace in conversation either though. We all have obligations, a schedule in life we've already established. I myself know I'm shy and anxious, having been alone for so long, the thought of letting someone in is genuinely scary. But it's the good kind of scary, one that brokers the possibility of change, of opening up a new chapter with someone.

So, to round this disastrous post off: I'm in this for the long haul, but hopefully if you've read this far (and thank you, you're awesome) you have some inkling of what kind of mind I have. If it sounds like a mind you'd still want to get to know, and potentially take things further, then reach out. I can't promise it will work out, but if it does, we can build a bond to stand the test of time. I truly believe in that.

Hope to hear from you soon.

So I'm 37 as it says above. Divorced from over ten years ago. Haven't dated a ton since then but I wanted to rebuild who I was. I'm looking to connect with someone that is a bit like me. Into gaming and music and state parks and things like that. I have a ton of things I'm into but it's honestly too much in my opinion. I want to find someone to treat like my queen. I'll answer all your questions. I don't discriminate. Height weight skin color, as long as I like your soul.

So, let's start, name is Victor and I am from UK. I work in a warehouse and I really hate it there, but won't be staying there forever since I am actually studying to become a personal fitness trainer. Working out is my passion and I really hope I can share passion with other people to help them improve their fitness level. Second one is gaming! I own Ps5, pc, Xbox series X, switch and even and even META QUEST 2. Big hardcore gamer here, but not a huge fan of multiplayer games. I do enjoy some like dead by daylight and league of legends but mostly I am a big fan of singleplayer games like rpgs, adventures, FPS, hack and slash and so on. I also enjoy watching movies, especially horror ones. Big horror fan here!

As a character I would say I am funny, sarcastic kind, friendly, social, supportive, understanding. I love listening to people and helping them as much as I can with a kind word. I am also very honest, maybe a bit too honest sometimes. I really hate lying

As for my physique: 160 cms tall, 59 kgs weight, brown hair, brown eyes, wear glasses, pretty athletic body.

One more thing about me: I suffered with depression and suicidal tendencies before. Right now I do suffer with anxiety and some panic attacks, which means at times I do have difficulty breathing but it is pretty much under control most of the time.

I hope I find a wonderful, loyal and honest girl and will appreciate me for who I am and I promise I will love and appreciate them with all I got.

Thanks for reading and hope to hear from someone.

Hey everyone, I'm 33F, single, no children, slim with a figure a bit like my life (i.e. pear-shaped), pale with long hair, quiet and reserved until I get to know you and then I'll struggle to shut up and not cling to you like a limpet. I love fantasy, literature and history, woodlands and wildlife, 90s witchy aesthetic, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, houseplants and crafts and the big tree in my garden, Lana Del Rey and the Pretty Reckless and hiding under blankets listening to rainy Skyrim playlists on youtube because life gets too much. I'm the kind of girl people apologise to when they swear in front of me because I come across very innocent (whether I actually am or not is something up for discussion). I work and am extremely independent and don't need you to look after me but to be honest I'm so near to just walking off a cliff these days that I want/need/crave to know just once what it's like to have someone strong make me feel taken care of emotionally and romantically and to be in an intimate relationship where I feel safe and like I actually belong somewhere.

Feel free to message me, please just match me on being a mostly responsible adult (I'm a grownup and can happily catch and release spiders!), slim/fit (if you can classical condition me into becoming a fitness bunny, I'll worship you), in the UK, with hobbies/interests/passions that don't completely go against mine. Also please try not to be a serial killer (or at least promise me it won't hurt too bad if that's your endgame). Don't be mean to animals. Have a kind heart.

PS. I had to get a little drunk at half 4 in the afternoon to post this - if you do message, be nice to me please!! And don't tell my boss as I'm meant to be working.

Thank you for reading x x

Hi everyone!

I'm a 34 full time mom of one with a million and a half interests. My profile history is open so feel free to take a look, but:

❤️ I enjoy video games (recently bought a Legion go S which I'm hoping to put to good use for some on-the-go multiplayer). I love fall, so I'm really excited about Halloween and all the carrot cakes/cinnamon rolls I'm going to bake all season. I used to lift weights pretty consistently and looking to get back in the gym in september. I live for music so my playlist has some range but oscillates between metal and classical.

🏠 I'm originally from Paris but I now live in a tiny village in the north of France with cows and stuff, I spend most of my days in the south of Belgium though and I appreciate all the chocolate but I could do with some company.

🔎 I'm dipping a toe in the water for now, so I'll be happy with getting to know each other through chats, games and eventually hang out if the stars align.

👀 Physically I'd describe myself as fairly tall and a little overweight but feminine looking with brown hair and bronze skin.

Hello! A little bit about me. I am introverted and a little shy, so I don't go out much, and so my opportunities to meet people is very limited. I feel like finding someone on here might be a little bit easier. I'm single obviously, so open for a relationship if things click, but I'm also ok if I find friends as well.

I prefer if we have some similar hobbies, like gaming for example. I feel like that would make it a lot easier to break the ice and find things to do while being long distance. I am mainly a PC gamer, but I play a variety of games.

I mainly use discord for connecting with people, and I am find with voice chats.

I have done an online relationship before, and although it didn't work out in the end, I am not jaded by the experience. So yes, I am open to online relationships to start, and we can see where things go from there I guess lol!

Anyways, if you're interested in connecting then I hope to hear from you.
Thanks for reading this!

I made a post about two months ago and did end up finding someone really cool, but unfortunately we just weren’t compatible long term. I wanted to post again in the hopes that this time will turn out better :)

What a strange thing it is to put yourself out there for thousands of people to see in the hopes of finding the perfect match, but here we go!

My name is Victoria. I’m 27 years old and was born and raised in North Carolina. I’m 5’7”, 220 pounds, and have collarbone length, wavy dark brown hair.

I enjoy fishing. The first time I ever went was this past February. It was quite the experience, but I had so much fun. I haven’t been in a bit though because I hurt my ankle while hiking. I enjoy being outdoors, except when it’s 100 degrees and feels like my skin is slipping off my bones. I absolutely love animals, and my 8 year old Lab is my world. I’m hoping to start fostering kittens soon, and I’m in dire need of a break from fostering dogs.

I’d say I’m more of an introvert, but I do well around other people. I just prefer smaller crowds and quieter settings, and I’d love to meet someone who feels the same way. I do struggle with anxiety, so if that’s annoying to you, I’m not your girl!

I don’t drink or smoke anymore.

I enjoy gaming and somewhat recently switched from Xbox to PC, so it would be a lot of fun to play together. I haven’t been gaming as much though because I’ve been rewatching Criminal Minds. I haven’t seen the new season yet. Some of the games I enjoy are Fallout 76, Phasmophobia, Dead by Daylight, Chained Together, DayZ, and Mecha Chameleon, but I’m always open to trying new games.

As for movies, I love horror, thrillers, and military action films. If we were to watch a show together, it would probably be Regular Show. For some reason, it just calms me. Don’t ask me my favorite movie because I genuinely have poop memory.

I really enjoy getting to know someone and becoming friends before anything else. If we aren’t a romantic match, I’d still be happy to make a new friend, but I am ultimately looking for a relationship, not just friends. I do my best to be nonjudgmental, and I’d appreciate someone who is the same. I also have a tendency to get attached if I genuinely enjoy your company, but I’m working on that.

I’d love to meet someone who’s open to texting throughout the day, hanging out to play games, or just hopping on a call. I’m a big fan of good morning and good night texts too. I completely understand that people get busy, but if you’re regularly unavailable all day and can only really talk at night, it probably won’t work out.
More than anything, I want someone who reciprocates the effort. I don’t want to be the only one asking questions or checking in. I want you to enjoy getting to know me as much as I enjoy getting to know you.

I’d also like to meet someone who’s in my time zone or at least close to it. I think it makes spending time together a lot easier. In the future, I’d love someone who’s comfortable being affectionate. I guess I’d describe myself as someone who likes “soft” love. Little acts of affection, reassurance, and making each other feel cared for.

I’m not looking for anyone specific beyond someone who puts in equal effort, genuinely tries to be a good person, and is somewhere between the ages of 27 and 40. I also don’t want to see what you look like right away. I know that might sound a little strange, but I’d rather get to know you as a person first and let things develop naturally.

If you decide to message me, please tell me your name, age, and where you’re from. Also, please don’t just copy and paste an introduction you’ve already posted. I’d much rather read something that feels genuine.

Anyway, if you’ve made it this far, thanks for reading.
Hopefully someone sees this, thinks we might get along, and wants to see where things go.