r/ForeverAloneDating • u/sunnyflwr • 11h ago
F4A 27 [F4A] NC - Third time’s a charm? (I hope)
I made a post about two months ago and did end up finding someone really cool, but unfortunately we just weren’t compatible long term. I wanted to post again in the hopes that this time will turn out better :)
What a strange thing it is to put yourself out there for thousands of people to see in the hopes of finding the perfect match, but here we go!
My name is Victoria. I’m 27 years old and was born and raised in North Carolina. I’m 5’7”, 220 pounds, and have collarbone length, wavy dark brown hair.
I enjoy fishing. The first time I ever went was this past February. It was quite the experience, but I had so much fun. I haven’t been in a bit though because I hurt my ankle while hiking. I enjoy being outdoors, except when it’s 100 degrees and feels like my skin is slipping off my bones. I absolutely love animals, and my 8 year old Lab is my world. I’m hoping to start fostering kittens soon, and I’m in dire need of a break from fostering dogs.
I’d say I’m more of an introvert, but I do well around other people. I just prefer smaller crowds and quieter settings, and I’d love to meet someone who feels the same way. I do struggle with anxiety, so if that’s annoying to you, I’m not your girl!
I don’t drink or smoke anymore.
I enjoy gaming and somewhat recently switched from Xbox to PC, so it would be a lot of fun to play together. I haven’t been gaming as much though because I’ve been rewatching Criminal Minds. I haven’t seen the new season yet. Some of the games I enjoy are Fallout 76, Phasmophobia, Dead by Daylight, Chained Together, DayZ, and Mecha Chameleon, but I’m always open to trying new games.
As for movies, I love horror, thrillers, and military action films. If we were to watch a show together, it would probably be Regular Show. For some reason, it just calms me. Don’t ask me my favorite movie because I genuinely have poop memory.
I really enjoy getting to know someone and becoming friends before anything else. If we aren’t a romantic match, I’d still be happy to make a new friend, but I am ultimately looking for a relationship, not just friends. I do my best to be nonjudgmental, and I’d appreciate someone who is the same. I also have a tendency to get attached if I genuinely enjoy your company, but I’m working on that.
I’d love to meet someone who’s open to texting throughout the day, hanging out to play games, or just hopping on a call. I’m a big fan of good morning and good night texts too. I completely understand that people get busy, but if you’re regularly unavailable all day and can only really talk at night, it probably won’t work out.
More than anything, I want someone who reciprocates the effort. I don’t want to be the only one asking questions or checking in. I want you to enjoy getting to know me as much as I enjoy getting to know you.
I’d also like to meet someone who’s in my time zone or at least close to it. I think it makes spending time together a lot easier. In the future, I’d love someone who’s comfortable being affectionate. I guess I’d describe myself as someone who likes “soft” love. Little acts of affection, reassurance, and making each other feel cared for.
I’m not looking for anyone specific beyond someone who puts in equal effort, genuinely tries to be a good person, and is somewhere between the ages of 27 and 40. I also don’t want to see what you look like right away. I know that might sound a little strange, but I’d rather get to know you as a person first and let things develop naturally.
If you decide to message me, please tell me your name, age, and where you’re from. Also, please don’t just copy and paste an introduction you’ve already posted. I’d much rather read something that feels genuine.
Anyway, if you’ve made it this far, thanks for reading.
Hopefully someone sees this, thinks we might get along, and wants to see where things go.