r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

182 Upvotes

As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

66 Upvotes

While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

F4A 27 [F4A] NC - Third time’s a charm? (I hope)

23 Upvotes

I made a post about two months ago and did end up finding someone really cool, but unfortunately we just weren’t compatible long term. I wanted to post again in the hopes that this time will turn out better :)

What a strange thing it is to put yourself out there for thousands of people to see in the hopes of finding the perfect match, but here we go!

My name is Victoria. I’m 27 years old and was born and raised in North Carolina. I’m 5’7”, 220 pounds, and have collarbone length, wavy dark brown hair.

I enjoy fishing. The first time I ever went was this past February. It was quite the experience, but I had so much fun. I haven’t been in a bit though because I hurt my ankle while hiking. I enjoy being outdoors, except when it’s 100 degrees and feels like my skin is slipping off my bones. I absolutely love animals, and my 8 year old Lab is my world. I’m hoping to start fostering kittens soon, and I’m in dire need of a break from fostering dogs.

I’d say I’m more of an introvert, but I do well around other people. I just prefer smaller crowds and quieter settings, and I’d love to meet someone who feels the same way. I do struggle with anxiety, so if that’s annoying to you, I’m not your girl!

I don’t drink or smoke anymore.

I enjoy gaming and somewhat recently switched from Xbox to PC, so it would be a lot of fun to play together. I haven’t been gaming as much though because I’ve been rewatching Criminal Minds. I haven’t seen the new season yet. Some of the games I enjoy are Fallout 76, Phasmophobia, Dead by Daylight, Chained Together, DayZ, and Mecha Chameleon, but I’m always open to trying new games.

As for movies, I love horror, thrillers, and military action films. If we were to watch a show together, it would probably be Regular Show. For some reason, it just calms me. Don’t ask me my favorite movie because I genuinely have poop memory.

I really enjoy getting to know someone and becoming friends before anything else. If we aren’t a romantic match, I’d still be happy to make a new friend, but I am ultimately looking for a relationship, not just friends. I do my best to be nonjudgmental, and I’d appreciate someone who is the same. I also have a tendency to get attached if I genuinely enjoy your company, but I’m working on that.

I’d love to meet someone who’s open to texting throughout the day, hanging out to play games, or just hopping on a call. I’m a big fan of good morning and good night texts too. I completely understand that people get busy, but if you’re regularly unavailable all day and can only really talk at night, it probably won’t work out.
More than anything, I want someone who reciprocates the effort. I don’t want to be the only one asking questions or checking in. I want you to enjoy getting to know me as much as I enjoy getting to know you.

I’d also like to meet someone who’s in my time zone or at least close to it. I think it makes spending time together a lot easier. In the future, I’d love someone who’s comfortable being affectionate. I guess I’d describe myself as someone who likes “soft” love. Little acts of affection, reassurance, and making each other feel cared for.

I’m not looking for anyone specific beyond someone who puts in equal effort, genuinely tries to be a good person, and is somewhere between the ages of 27 and 40. I also don’t want to see what you look like right away. I know that might sound a little strange, but I’d rather get to know you as a person first and let things develop naturally.

If you decide to message me, please tell me your name, age, and where you’re from. Also, please don’t just copy and paste an introduction you’ve already posted. I’d much rather read something that feels genuine.

Anyway, if you’ve made it this far, thanks for reading.
Hopefully someone sees this, thinks we might get along, and wants to see where things go.


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

F4M 30 [F4M] southern us, anywhere--looking for connection

7 Upvotes

I'm happy being alone. I'm happy when there's someone around that I connect with. I miss loving and being loved.

I live a very quiet life with my kitties. I prefer it. it wasn't always this way, but I'll focus on who I am now.

I think kindness is the most important thing, both towards yourself and others. I spread it as much as I can.

I like reading, coffee, and bubble baths. I work a pretty low-stress job and I'm planning on going back to school.

I'm around 5'10" and on the injections for weight loss. I have a lot of tattoos and long, wavy hair. I should wear my glasses more often than I do.

I have a dissociative disorder called depersonalization/derealization, but it's mostly under control. I go to therapy regularly and take medication.

I prioritize a solid sleep schedule and healthy choices in general. I'm focused on making progress and taking care of myself.

ideally I'd love to find someone who also wants a wholesome, nurturing relationship. I can't wait to meet you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] [Europe] Hello, I am an introverted nerdy guy who has never been with in a relationship with anyone. I'm looking for a nerdy introverted girl who, just like me, also has zero experience.

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Although that isn't all I am looking for in a partner, I have come to realize that someone who I can learn with all the nuances of romance is a non-negotiable for me.

I will tell you about who I am: I am a 26 year old man, 1.9m tall. I have moved recently to France so my french is actually not very good (my mother tongue, in fact, is spanish). I am from the Americas.

I am what you'd call "geeky", I don't really go out a lot in general, I prefer spending time at home. I don't have many friends here, either, but I am also not a person who finds it easy to make friends in general, as I need to relate on a deeper level with them.

In my free time, I mostly either watch series, game, or maybe go out for a walk. Maybe read a book here and there, too.

I was raised in a christian society, but I am at most agnostic.

Anyway, I post here because I would like to find a girl like me. I might not find her, but I should make the attempt, at least. I take first experiences seriously, naturally, this means I am a virgin and looking for a girl who is one, too. I do not seek to find an experienced woman.

Physically, I am actually like women on the taller side, but this to me is a small overall part of what I'm looking for.

I am willing to date anyone in Europe, but further away would unfortunately not be possible due to distance.

Please include "raspberries" in your message so I can know you read all of my post.

To everyone else, have a great day.


r/ForeverAloneDating 17h ago

F4M 20 [F4M] - NA | Online - Introverted lonely gamer

41 Upvotes

Hello! A little bit about me. I am introverted and a little shy, so I don't go out much, and so my opportunities to meet people is very limited. I feel like finding someone on here might be a little bit easier. I'm single obviously, so open for a relationship if things click, but I'm also ok if I find friends as well.

I prefer if we have some similar hobbies, like gaming for example. I feel like that would make it a lot easier to break the ice and find things to do while being long distance. I am mainly a PC gamer, but I play a variety of games.

I mainly use discord for connecting with people, and I am find with voice chats.

I have done an online relationship before, and although it didn't work out in the end, I am not jaded by the experience. So yes, I am open to online relationships to start, and we can see where things go from there I guess lol!

Anyways, if you're interested in connecting then I hope to hear from you.
Thanks for reading this!


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 29 M4F Europe/Anywhere - Nerd, quiet guy looking for a romantic relationship

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so...helo from Italy (* ̄∇ ̄)ノ

I'm your typical indoor nerdguy that plays videogames most of free time and works out - not obsessed gym rat but still fit/muscular, 177cm tall - medium lenght wavy hair - a bit weeb, very quiet and chill personality (not even riot games can make me mad)

hopeless romantic, probably because of all the romance anime I watched in high school 🥲

whenever I can love to travel, Poland been my fav country to visit so far!

Gaming on my pc is my main hobby, also fan of few gacha games: mainly hsr and wuwa.

I have 2 cats ₍^. .^₎⟆, drinking monsters. caffeine goes hard.

looking for my life partner, nothing less: Don't mind long distance as long as it's EU, in shape and good health, not smoker and similar nerd hobbies would really help

I'm not a big fan of facial piercings, that would be my only strong preference.

Would also prefer exchanging pics as early as possible, I think mutual physical attraction is also important, being direct and honest about anything is everything I want from a relationship :)

thank you for reading!


r/ForeverAloneDating 12h ago

F4M 39 [F4M] Canada

14 Upvotes

I'm a 39 yr old female, in Canada near Ottawa. I'm seeking a real connection with someone. Great convo, attraction. Someone who is READY to be a teammate for life, through the good and the bad. Someone who is ready and willing to put the effort into building something real. Not someone who is fake, unsure of what they want, or superficial. I'm an attractive, smart woman. I like someone who can hold a conversation and be interested in a variety of topics. But I'm also silly, funny, playful and have a politically incorrect sense of humour 😆 But still mature when it comes to life and responsibilities. I'm self-sustaining and capable of learning any skill/task I put my mind to. I'm ambitious, but not to the point of emotionally closing myself off to my partner. My goals would include them every step of the way. Im caring, selfless, and a giver. I like to show my affection in many ways. I don't have ulterior motives and I'm loyal until the end. I feel like I have a lot to offer to someone. Just looking for my person! Please be between the ages of 30 - 45. Thanks for reading!


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #UK/LDR - seeking intelligent women

3 Upvotes

Hi! :)

I'm a guy in UK (Cambridgeshire). I work as an AI Software Engineer in a small town and dont own a car (frugality) so its a bit difficult to find connections locally.

I'm looking for someone smart and nerdy in a classical sense - science, technology, history, astrophysics, biology etc. If you have a passion for any of these - tell me all about it!

I'm a former game developer, video games are my passion and my long term dream - I moved to UK from Poland at age 19 and struggled hard to live frugally and save money so I can one day FIRE and build games that are not profit oriented. I want to bring the art of it back.

I dont care about looks since this is a connection oriented long distance offer. I am looking for someone with dreams and passion so we can support each other.

I realise chances of finding such a person on Reddit are miniscule but hey why not try its free 🫠 friendships are always welcome too, hope to hear back in DMs!


r/ForeverAloneDating 19h ago

F4M 33 [F4M] UK

34 Upvotes

Hey everyone, I'm 33F, single, no children, slim with a figure a bit like my life (i.e. pear-shaped), pale with long hair, quiet and reserved until I get to know you and then I'll struggle to shut up and not cling to you like a limpet. I love fantasy, literature and history, woodlands and wildlife, 90s witchy aesthetic, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, houseplants and crafts and the big tree in my garden, Lana Del Rey and the Pretty Reckless and hiding under blankets listening to rainy Skyrim playlists on youtube because life gets too much. I'm the kind of girl people apologise to when they swear in front of me because I come across very innocent (whether I actually am or not is something up for discussion). I work and am extremely independent and don't need you to look after me but to be honest I'm so near to just walking off a cliff these days that I want/need/crave to know just once what it's like to have someone strong make me feel taken care of emotionally and romantically and to be in an intimate relationship where I feel safe and like I actually belong somewhere.

Feel free to message me, please just match me on being a mostly responsible adult (I'm a grownup and can happily catch and release spiders!), slim/fit (if you can classical condition me into becoming a fitness bunny, I'll worship you), in the UK, with hobbies/interests/passions that don't completely go against mine. Also please try not to be a serial killer (or at least promise me it won't hurt too bad if that's your endgame). Don't be mean to animals. Have a kind heart.

PS. I had to get a little drunk at half 4 in the afternoon to post this - if you do message, be nice to me please!! And don't tell my boss as I'm meant to be working.

Thank you for reading x x


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

F4M 26 [F4M] Phoenix, Arizona - nerdy, tatted, childfree, and looking to date!! 🤠

4 Upvotes

Hi there! I’m 26F in Phoenix, AZ. I am seeking someone in Arizona. I am looking for something serious !! In person only.

About me: 26F, office job, cat. Leftist, monogamist, childfree. I am plus-size (5’6”, 230 lbs) and white/asian (but look white). Currently living with my family (cannot host shenanigans). I enjoy baking, music and concerts, video games, crafting, and going new places.

Ideally looking for: someone local to Arizona. someone who is also leftist, monogamist, and childfree. Someone who is interested in building up to a relationship. I prefer thin/fit/average, and looking for someone who is 32 or younger!

Some more fun info to sound less intense: I love cozy gaming and grew up on farming sims. I would love a horror/thriller movie cuddle buddy. I work in science!

Feel free to send me a message or chat (:


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] #Germany searching for my partner

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Hi my Name is Leon and i want a Monogamous Relationship that lasts.

I'm looking for someone who i can truly love and appreciate, someone who likes me for who i am and isn't afraid to communicate clearly. I've never been in a relationship because it didnt click with the women i dated and im not the type of guy for a one nighter.

My Appearance:

Im 1.80

Brown Hair (bald with beard)

Brown eyes

A bit chubby on the waist and upper leg area

My hobbies are gaming and collecting stuff like Figures. I play a wide variety of story and online games on the PS5 but also have a (very bad) PC.

I also draw quite alot, mostly in a comic book style like Marvel or DC but i want to learn things like classical oilpainting 'n stuff like that.

I also begun to hit the gym, to get in shape and gain a physical physique i can be proud of.

I like women who can express themselves and show that she's interested. I dont like when i am the only one that keeps the datingphase alive.

i'm a bit shy but if we are on the same wavelenght, the ice breaks quite fast and i talk like a waterfall.

I hope you like what you see, and i would love to hear from you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] Looking for someone to come home to

3 Upvotes

I've spent a long time on the road not literally, though I do love to travel, but in that quieter way people mean when they say they've been searching. For the right person, the right kind of steady, the right kind of real. I think I'm finally ready to stop wandering and start building something.

A little about me: I sing, I've acted in plays back in school and college (still get a little thrill from a stage), and I'm the kind of person who'll plan a trip on a whim just to see somewhere new. I cook, genuinely, not just survival meals, and I'll happily debate cricket, football, F1, tennis, and chess with equal passion, sometimes all in the same conversation. I try to stay active, and I'm the friend who actually wants to talk about geopolitics and current affairs over coffee, not just scroll past the headlines.

I'd call myself an ambivert I can hold a room, but I also love the quiet, one-on-one conversations that go somewhere real. I'm a deep talker at heart. Small talk has never been my language.

What I'm looking for isn't complicated, even if it's taken me a while to find it: someone loyal, emotionally mature, kind, affectionate, and who doesn't take themselves too seriously. Someone I can build a life with slowly, honestly, the way good things are built.

I've been single for a while now, not because I gave up looking, but because I was waiting for someone worth staying still for.

If that sounds like you let's talk. I think we might have a lot to say to each other.


r/ForeverAloneDating 10h ago

F4A 35 [F4A] | North and South America | Looking for something genuine

5 Upvotes

Hey! I’m a 35F from South America looking to meet people between 34-50 from North or South America who are interested in getting to know each other and potentially building a relationship. I’m open to both men and women.

I’m mostly a homebody and don’t do much day-to-day, but I enjoy cooking, gaming, and watching movies with snacks. I’m a PC gamer with Steam and Discord, although I’ll soon be joining the Xbox side.

I have limited mobility due to damage to my lumbar discs, so I’m more into quiet nights at home than going out all the time. I’d love to find someone who enjoys talking, gaming together, watching movies or shows, and just keeping each other company.

I’m not looking for anything casuall. I’d like to meet someone, see if we click, and hopefully build something meaningful.

If you message me, tell me a little about yourself rather than just saying hi and solve this pls:

Captcha: What is 7 × 8?


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] New Zealand/Online - nervous but trying

2 Upvotes

I have no experience dating, barely any experience talking to women, especially intimately, but being alone is hard and I want to take a step to find someone to share my life with instead of waiting for it.

I've never tried to write stuff down about myself so I'll just start typing.

I'm looking for a girl who likes to be open and speak freely about anything and everything. There doesn't always have to be a point or a problem with a solution, I just like listening and taking everything in. I don't really have a switch I'll just say anything on my mind.

I walk a lot and explore quiet places, which is also a good activity for talking funnily enough. I don't do it for exercise but I do have a goal of losing weight and getting fit so it would be nice to have someone that likes to walk for a long time or travel around.

I play video games. Always wanted to play cute and casual coop games but never had someone to do it with.

I like gardening, trying new recipes often, maybe I could cook for you? I don't have a sweet tooth but I'll indulge yours.

I don't mind simple messages if you just want to get a vibe of me first. I can answer questions about my looks and body. I understand life gets complicated and you can't always spend your time here :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] #Canada - Looking for a genuine connection

2 Upvotes

Hi
I'm 22 and from Canada. I've never really been a fan of dating apps, so I figured I'd try posting here instead.
A bit about me: I enjoy going to the gym, reading, watching sports, anime, and movies. I'm pretty introverted, but I do enjoy going out and doing things like exploring new places, grabbing food, going for walks, checking out events, or just having a good conversation. I'm big on self-improvement and taking it step by step
I'd describe myself as loyal, ambitious, easygoing, and a good listener. I can be a little quiet at first, but once I'm comfortable with someone, l open up pretty quickly.
I'm looking for someone kind, honest, and interested in building a real connection. Distance isn't a dealbreaker if the effort is mutual. Ideally, I'd like to find something that could grow into a serious relationship.
If you've read this far you're probably already interested so why not text me and tell me about yourselt
Hope to hear from you


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 30 M4F - Seeking a metalhead or someone alternative

1 Upvotes

Good evening. I'm a 30 year old Indian man from Malaysia seeking for a romantic connection. Can be any kind. Yappers or people passionate about their interests are encouraged.

I'm making some huge changes, for the better and would like some companionship. I'm not a fan of dating apps because I'm quite burnt out by the whole experience. Been on a couple of dates and was told I'm Marginally Normal™.

Personally, I'm really into books, Warhammer, video games, music and movies. I started going to the gym recently and am learning the electric guitar. I also love going to live shows. I also really, really like art. My favourite painting is Saturn Devouring His Son by Francisco Goya. I have it over my headboard just like him.

I use Discord, WhatsApp and Reddit as my main source of communication. I'm also open to calls and frequent texting.

I also really, REALLY enjoy watching someone stream their game and talk about it. I'm not into Vtubers though so I'd appreciate it if you were human.

Goth culture has always interested me. I'm more of a metalhead but am seeking to deepen my understanding in the subculture.

I'm currently employed and work in IT. I also consider myself emotionally mature and respectful. Thank you for reading.


r/ForeverAloneDating 20h ago

F4M 25 - [F4M] / Europe - Let’s get to know each other

25 Upvotes

Reposting so I am sorry if you have to see this!

Hello! I’ve decided to post here and see what’s out there, looking forward to chat and get to know someone.Looking for a specific chemistry with someone, that specific dynamic that is a mix between respect and fun.

First of all I am healthy, I workout throughout the week and I take care of how I look and what I eat so I do expect you to be on the same level.

About me;
1 I enjoy doing Yoga and cardio so much.
2 I’m 5’5 brown hair brown eyes, fit skinny, olive skin and curly hair.
3 I love going out, drinking outside and going on photography trips.
4 I like collecting dolls and Legos
5 My biggest passion is reading books My recent books are Great Expectations, Água Viva, The Myth of Sisyphus, The undiscovered self and some of Stefan zewig. I absolutely hate poorly written plots but I always fall for thriller book but that’s during slow days. I also enjoy some politics books.
6 I enjoy having a conversation with a smart, thoughtful man :)
7 very supporting and loving person

About you!
1 Respectful and you enjoy sharing a conversation with someone rather then talking about yourself
2 You know how to hold a conversation and ask questions. you’re not dry and you’re interested in what you doing.

3 27-33 and you’re single
4 someone who wants to be consistent with me

Please! Send me an intro of yourself regarding everything about you :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 15h ago

F4A 32F4A Oklahoma/USA - Looking for my Survival Craft Partner

9 Upvotes

~The Basics~ 

Call me Val! I’m a sex neutral (but generally uninterested) asexual lady (dubious) living in a small town in Northern Oklahoma! I classify myself as a nerd (more later) and kind of a home body but I’m usually up for an adventure if I have someone to drag me along on them.

I’m a bit on the plush side, only 5’1” and a brunette. Pictures can be sent via discord if we like each other enough to move the convo there! 

I am looking for something long term only- friends are welcome but I’m definitely after a relationship mainly so please keep that in mind when sending me a message. 

My age range is around 28 to 45 give or take a year or so! When messaging me please send more than just your age and location! 

~Location~

I am open to long distance! USA only though- I can only do long distance so long as there’s opportunities for us to meet up a few times during the year. I would be remiss if I didn’t also add that I am more than willing to move if things work out… but that is for future relationship business, not the meeting phase. 

~More Info~ 

  • I’m pretty left leaning but generally keep politics out of my conversations because I’m not a good debater. I have very strong opinions on things but the moment anyone tries to challenge me I have a bad habit of shutting down, so tend to just… not talk about it.
  • I’m not religious. I generally consider myself to be atheist with some agnostic leanings. I think reincarnation would be nice if anything does exist.
  • I personally am not interested in having my own children but I’m not against the idea of being a spare parent for someone else's.
  • I’m a huge animal lover! I have one cat that lives with me and two more pets I had to leave at home with my dad when I moved into my apartment. My pets are the loves of my life so I can’t be with anyone who isn’t also an animal lover or allergic to cats/dogs.
  • I’m a pretty big nerd! I watch plenty of anime and love to game! I’m a PC gamer with a steam catalog full of co-ops, survival crafts, and cute little farming games. My top five are probably Deep Rock Galactic, Abiotic Factor, Cult of the Lamb, Enshrouded, and Valheim and I am praying for the love of the universe that someone will play these with me! An honorable mention would also be Stardew Valley but it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. I have over 1500 hours in ARK Survival Evolved. It’s an abusive relationship I keep going back to.
  • I’m an artist!!! Sometimes. Not often anymore. But I do love drawing and character design. I roleplay every once in awhile using my vast collection of ocs and enjoy shipping my babies with the ocs of my friends. Biiiig bonus points if you’re also a roleplayer/character artist!
  • As it will quickly become apparent after talking to me, I am also a furry! It’s very casual. I don’t own a fursuit (can’t afford it) and I’ve never been to a con (no one to go with) and I don’t make it my whole personality (just half) but it stems from a deep love of Sonic the Hedgehog and I will never be ashamed of that. 
  • I enjoy reading. I mostly read at work to pass the time (my job is boring) and am currently on book three of Dungeon Crawler Carl. Which I started reading because…
  • I listen to Podcasts! My favorites are Distractible (where I learned about the book series) and another called The Last Podcast on the Left. I enjoy putting them on for background noise when I game or draw. 
  • I like horror movies and watching other people play horror games. Please play horror games for me, I'm too chicken to play them myself!
  • Last but not least, I also play MTG extremely casually. I have two commander decks but one of them is a precon. I’m not good at it but I do find it fun. I have a horse deck I wanna buy someday so I finally have some horses to hold.

I…. Think that about covers it? Please feel free to message me! I work nights and keep strange hours because of it so if I don’t reply right away I’m usually either working or sleeping. My days off are Tuesdays and Wednesdays! Peace out ✌️


r/ForeverAloneDating 10h ago

M4A 26 [m4f][m4nb] Finland/Europe | If you are seeking a partner in life, take a minute or two to read this, thanks <3

3 Upvotes

I've been long time looking for someone to call my partner, looking for something serious in the sense of we both care and put effort into it.

Before I go into the details I'd like to skim through the basics in case there is something that is out of your range, I wouldn't want to waste your time.

I'm a 26 year old guy, I'm currently studying in Finland but also hope to settle down here in the long term (originally from Hungary, but I really don't want to touch that place with a 10-foot-pole (one of the most useful items to exist, if you know, you know).

In similar points I'm looking for... well it's hard to define, because people are so versatile and varied, one can always be surprised. Oh one hard fact: something monogamous. That said, I'd like to start mentioning that I'm mostly drawn to feminine and sometimes neutral looking people, thus the f/nb in the title (basically tomboyish looks are my ideal, but I'm quite open to a wide range of looks, so there is a pretty fair deviation from that). Age and location is similarly vague, I don't really have a strict age limit (do be 18+ obviously), but somewhere 20 - 32 sounds most reasonable to me. Im looking mostly for people in Europe, but if you feel like you really vibe with me and wouldn't mind moving here in the future, do feel free to hit me up. I plan on living in Finland or Northern EU if I can manage it. (Note: I don't mix well with ace people from a relationship standpoint, yall are cool tho')

About me you should expect someone who's mature but likes to fill his time with humor and fun. The point of life is to enjoy it! Easiest way for me to be happy is to make sure people around me are happy (don't think about it too hard cus yea it's not the healthiest way to live, but a pretty good one still). One compliment I have been consistently getting is that I'm very sweet and supportive, a "sunshine piercing the darkest clouds" as one (in my opinion slightly exeggarating) friend said.

I'm passionate about quite a lot of things, but the center of everything is learning and curiosity itself. If I find something I don't know: first instinct is to look deeper into it, try to understand it. While I understand not everyone has the same, a base level of curiosity and passion is definitely something I look for in a partner.

I enjoy spending my time playing with my friends, be it tabletop roleplaying (like Dungeons and Dragons, or more recently Pathfinder) or videogames (mostly into strategic games, or recently back on moded Minecraft, but I can casually enjoy some shooters or such too with the right peeps). I like to bike around or go on hikes (Finnish nature is beautiful <3). I'm also someone quite connected to technology both in work and hobbies, so just expect someone on the reasonably(?) nerdy side. (also a pro tip with me: doing things together is the way I bond, if you want to keep me, expect that I'll want to have shared programs with you)

I would probably just keep on writing, so I do have to shut myself down here, trust me if you stick around you'll get longer rants than this about things I'm excited for. Please mention snow when you reach out to me so I know you read the post, thank you <3

You are welcome to write me a chat message or reach out any other way that you can find and feel comfortable with. I don't mind if the first message is just fairly short2, you don't need to come in with a grand opening, but I will be looking for that curiosity in your texts that I mentioned. I also wouldn't mind jumping straight to voice and some casual game we can chat during.

Have a wonderful day/night/etc!


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #Canada looking for my player 2 & Long term relationship

1 Upvotes

Divorced about 6 years now, no kids.

PC and Console gamer. I'm happiest with a woman who can appreciate a good co-op night, laughs at terrible jokes, and doesn't mind occasionally watching me completely fail at a boss fight and or fail at it together 😄. Looking for someone who enjoys gaming but also wants to get out, grab food, explore, and eventually build something together. I also have other nerdy hobbies and interests as well. If you're interested DM me Please have discord if you want to coop and bond that would be ideal. A willingness to do things together but also enjoys each others company through silence and takes comfort in that. Someone who is supportive of each other no matter the circumstance.

Looking for someone ideally in my region of Surrey, British Columbia, and or the Vancouver area.

Loves:

  • Board games
  • TV Shows/Movies (Sci-fi, Adventure, Thriller, Horror, Fantasy, Fantasy Adventure, Comedies, Anime, trashy reality shows lol.
  • Archery.
  • Nature (Forest walks and the beach)
  • Animals all the floofs
  • Gaming.
  • Camping.
  • D&D.
  • Reading.
  • Church every Sunday (Non-denominational) But was raised as Evangelical.
  • Cooking.
  • Volunteering
  • Being organized (hates mess lol)
  • Nachos.
  • Strawberries.
  • Poutines.
  • Japanese food fav dishes Chicken Katsu, Spicy Chicken Udon.
  • Cheese.
  • Bubble Tea.
  • Console Collector.
  • Swords.
  • Loves art in all forms especially sketches and painting
  • Wooden 3D puzzle building depends on what it is.
  • Video Game types likes: RPG's, MMOrpgs, Action, Soulslike, Sanbox, Dungeon Crawlers/rpg, action adventure, platformers, FPS, Horror, Sci-Fi, Cozy builders, Co-op, hack&slash, strategy/turn based as well, JRPGs, VR titles, Metroidvanias, Casual, Strategy & Tactical RPGs, Fighting, and RTS games.
  • Hanging out with my small group of friends.
  • Music Choices: Classical, Game Soundtracks, Movie Soundtracks, LoFi, Alternative, Rock, Christian, Gospel, Violin solos, Medieval folk, hip hop, some R&B, Country, some metal depends on the artist. Dislikes Lyrics involving spreading hate and anything negative.
  • Loves Ren fares anything Medieval.
  • Does not want kids and can't have any.
  • Will be your Mr. Fixit around the house :)

Core values: Communication, Honestly, Empathetic, Compassionate, Integrity, Forthright, Logical, Humor, Humility, Religious, Faithful, Monogamous, Respectful, Understanding. Straighforward. Transparency.

To give you an idea of what kind of peaceful person through music I listen to a small taste would be. Antvmnos by Eluveitie.


r/ForeverAloneDating 9h ago

M4F 37[M4F]

2 Upvotes

So I'm 37 as it says above. Divorced from over ten years ago. Haven't dated a ton since then but I wanted to rebuild who I was. I'm looking to connect with someone that is a bit like me. Into gaming and music and state parks and things like that. I have a ton of things I'm into but it's honestly too much in my opinion. I want to find someone to treat like my queen. I'll answer all your questions. I don't discriminate. Height weight skin color, as long as I like your soul.


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

F4M 28[F4M] #Miami, Florida -Want to believe in love again

0 Upvotes

I feel like I’m losing time trying to find someone genuine. Is there anybody that’s seeking a real relationship?

Low effort DMs will be ignore

Monogamous : Serious Inquiries Only

Hello and thank you for stopping by.

I’m a 28-year-old woman with deep roots in Florida and a culturally rich background that includes Black, Asian, and some European heritage. I’m at a point in life where I’m no longer interested in short-term connections, I’m genuinely ready to find my life partner and build a lasting, faith-centered family.

I value mutual respect, kindness, and authentic communication. I’m open to becoming a stay-at-home w or mother, but I’m flexible and willing to adapt based on our shared vision for the future. Though my main goal is to be a SAHW/M and I hope that I can find a man who’d provide that lifestyle. I’ve experienced the pain of being with someone who disrespected my mother, so it’s incredibly important to me that you value and respect my mother, as she plays a key role in my life. I seek to build a deep connection beyond the surface. I just want to confirm that we are on the same page when it comes to respect.

What I’m Looking For:

• A man who is monogamous, emotionally mature, and communicates clearly (ghosting is a deal-breaker)

• Someone with traditional male values, who leads with integrity, honor, and strength

• A God-fearing \*\*\*Christian man\*\*\* who isn’t ashamed of his faith and lives it boldly

• Respectful, grounded, and committed to self-improvement

• A man who can make me laugh until my sides hurt (dark humor and dry wit welcome)

• Someone who takes health seriously—physically fit or actively working toward fitness goals

• No smoking, no illegal substances, and free of STIs

• Willing to meet and get along with my family

• Must be over 23 and of White or East Asian descent

• Financially Stable

A Bit About Me:

I’m introspective, passionate, and adventurous. I enjoy the outdoors, discovering historical landmarks, and learning new things. I’m also incredibly visual and expressive, I love doing voice impressions and have a strong appreciation for both dark and lighthearted humor.

In my downtime, you’ll find me singing, gaming (I’m big on RPGs, FPS, and simulation games), listening to rock and heavy metal, journaling, or sipping cocoa while enjoying nature. I also care deeply about skincare and sustainability.

Career-wise, I’m currently navigating my path forward. I have a background in healthcare and am working toward a future in medical laboratory science or a similar field. My faith in God helps guide me, and I strive to remain thankful and grounded through life’s ups and downs.

If you’re someone who’s looking for a deep, lasting connection built on faith, love, and mutual respect, I’d love to hear from you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 17h ago

F4M 34 [F4M] - France/Belgium - Apprehensive but excited to start dating again

6 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

I'm a 34 full time mom of one with a million and a half interests. My profile history is open so feel free to take a look, but:

❤️ I enjoy video games (recently bought a Legion go S which I'm hoping to put to good use for some on-the-go multiplayer). I love fall, so I'm really excited about Halloween and all the carrot cakes/cinnamon rolls I'm going to bake all season. I used to lift weights pretty consistently and looking to get back in the gym in september. I live for music so my playlist has some range but oscillates between metal and classical.

🏠 I'm originally from Paris but I now live in a tiny village in the north of France with cows and stuff, I spend most of my days in the south of Belgium though and I appreciate all the chocolate but I could do with some company.

🔎 I'm dipping a toe in the water for now, so I'll be happy with getting to know each other through chats, games and eventually hang out if the stars align.

👀 Physically I'd describe myself as fairly tall and a little overweight but feminine looking with brown hair and bronze skin.


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] #Germany #Anywhere Hoping to meet someone special

0 Upvotes

Wanted to give this a try and hopefully meet someone I can build a real connection with. I’m 24, based in Germany and thought I'd start by sharing a little bit about myself. I'm 180 cm tall, with a muscular build, dark hair. I take care of myself. but my dress is usually just clean and casual, nothing flashy. Personality wise I'm easy going and reliable. My humor is dry but I can sometimes be goofy. Grew up religious, left that behind, no issue if you didn’t.

Things I'm interested in: * Languages (fluent in German, English and Russian, currently working on French) * Favorite animals are cats, birds, racoons * Astrology (I'm a Taurus sun, Scorpio rising, Gemini moon) * Spirituality / meditation / philosophy (curious about your take) I’ve also become increasingly interested in Hinduism and its philosophy, particularly ideas around spirituality, consciousness and the nature of the self. I’m still learning, so I’d be curious to hear your perspective. * Watching movies and shows: horror, crime, thrillers, into anime as well * Reading (rare, but when it happens it’s about science or philosophy) * Music (I like all kinds of music but I'm especially drawn to kpop and Rnb)

Looking for someone who actually wants to date, not just chat forever. Kindness, curiosity, and the ability to laugh at yourself go a long way. Prefer starting online, maybe calls later, and meeting up if it feels right. Open to LDR if there’s a realistic chance of meeting.

Dealbreakers: * People who only want surface level chat * People who are only looking for buddies * Being disrespectful * Wanting children * Not attracted to curvy people, sorry

If you’re 18+, can handle an introvert with niche hobbies, and think we could be a good match, feel free to dm me, tell me something about yourself.