r/bald 14h ago

Bald Picture I did it. Feel like I look silly now lol

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u/ghostbusteraesthetic 14h ago

No way, bro.

This is way better than before.

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u/Prudent_Release_902 14h ago

Looks good! Get some sleep

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u/Catgirl_Male_Edition 14h ago

I work 50 hour weeks, night shift, and have 3 kids that have the other days of the week that I dont work. Sleep is an unnattainable dream

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u/the_lote_tree 13h ago

Don’t wish these days away. Someday you will have plenty of time to sleep. For now, trim the beard, get a little sun, and change your shirt.

I think it’s a good change!

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u/Catgirl_Male_Edition 10h ago

Wait is my shirt bad or is that just like a saying or something xD

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u/the_lote_tree 10h ago

No, but I’ll bet you have more flattering ones. 😏

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u/Prudent_Release_902 14h ago

Sorry to hear that. Well in that case keep grinding and take care of yourself.

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u/Catgirl_Male_Edition 10h ago

Thats the goal! Lol. I dont hate it but my life is pretty exhausting right now for sure

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u/ThoseOldScientists 14h ago

I think you look great, but I reckon your sweet-spot is going to be just a little bit of fuzz. Just a smidge.

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u/mezzolicious Bald - Woman 2h ago

I agree! 1-2 mm and also trim the beard just a little

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u/Frosty-Structure-778 14h ago

You can always grow it back out. Your hair before shaving didn't look bad at all.

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u/Catgirl_Male_Edition 14h ago

Yeah I know my hair is passable but I have always hated my hairline. This way I dont have to worry about my hairline lol

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u/Frosty-Structure-778 13h ago

Totally valid. When I first shaved my head I found that I liked it a lot more after the first few shaves and getting a bit more color on my scalp for the extra sun exposure. Just be sure you dont burn, that really sucks on the head.

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u/Catgirl_Male_Edition 10h ago

Idk man me and the sun have a love hate relationship, I prefer to hiss at it and stay indoors

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u/Frosty-Structure-778 9h ago

I'm not too far from that myself. But recently I've found that I like looking at my face more when there's a little sun on it. To say nothing of how I feel about others looking at it.

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u/KaleidoscopeMarbles 13h ago

Looks great! Thin out the jawline beard hair just a little - looks more streamlined you’ll look even more great!

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u/gobblewonkergrump 14h ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/bzn3aznEbnh28
You do not look silly at all! You look fantastic! It’s a big change, I bet you will love it after you have some time to get used to it. 😊👍

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u/unsolicited-advice- 13h ago

You feel that way because you are fair skinned, and it is a stark change from before. If you want to try a stubble shave - e.g. Jason Statham, you might feel a little less conspicuous, but you look good as is my brother.

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u/DoubleNickle67 14h ago

No way.

Thats all you dude.

You look great.

Own it!

You look so much younger and more approachable.

Well done.

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u/socksdadsandsleaze 13h ago

This is a great change, you don't look silly.

You might benefit from trimming that beard right down.

Do you wear specs? Bald and bold framed specs always looks good.

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u/Catgirl_Male_Edition 10h ago

I am supposed to have glasses but I misplaced them and havent been able to get a replacement pair lol.

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u/Some_Squash_3386 13h ago

You look good man! Try to smile, maybe get a tan, but either way it’s an improvement in my opinion! Welcome to the club 🙏🏾

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u/Jonathan-Welford 13h ago

Head looks good. Trim the side beard and increase the next line

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u/Drplaguebites 14h ago

my dude! helllll yeah

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u/Warm-Perspective8271 13h ago

Silly? Why? It looks really good!!

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u/bhad999 13h ago

Dude, that head was made to be bald! Looks great!

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u/RetroFlav2000 13h ago

You look great! Your eyes are so striking!

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u/Particular_Yellow243 13h ago

I don’t think you had to shave but I love the result. You look good.

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u/hellkattbb 13h ago

This is a big leap! You don't look silly to me. I think your hair was at the point where you could leave it alone for a while longer, or shave it, and if you don't like it let it grow back. The other thing I think is that we redheads often have very light or pale skin, so sometimes the look is hard to imagine unless you just do it. You did that. If you are not comfortable with it, or can't get used to it, then go ahead and let it grow back, and maybe go to a really good barber and try a different cut.

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u/Catgirl_Male_Edition 10h ago

Im blonde but I do have some red in my beard, think its my irish blood seeping through. Appreciate the advice!

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u/Dizzy_Penguin13 12h ago

Except you don’t look silly at all

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u/RUKiddingMeReddit 11h ago

It's the shirt bro.

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u/Catgirl_Male_Edition 10h ago

Damn is the shirt not good? I like this shirt xD

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u/RockyLeal 6h ago

Thats not even a shirt. Get a shirt.

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u/Catgirl_Male_Edition 5h ago

Im chilling in my house why do I need towear a real shirt T.T

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u/Dunderberget 14h ago

It was better before. But hey hair grows back!

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u/ClankerCore 13h ago

You didn’t look silly before?

/JOKE

You’re fine man I would personally suggest trimming the beard a little closer down, but otherwise you look fine. Don’t worry about it.

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u/heretofor 14h ago

Looks great, buddy.

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u/Agreeable_Till_8471 14h ago

Head looks damn good to me, looks like maybe one side of your beard might need trimmed/brushed so its kinda throwing of the balance maybe.

Otherwise thumbs up brother

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u/VegasRudeboy 14h ago

You look impeccable

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u/TizMahBiz 14h ago

I don’t. I think you look edgy and way cooler if I’m honest. The bald head definitely suits you!

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u/dobsterfunk 14h ago

not silly, different to what you're used to. Looks cool, man.

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u/Supersonic-Zafonic 13h ago

Looks great! Takes a bit of getting used to that’s all!

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u/Piano-Beginning Hair Headed - Woman 13h ago

You look amazing! Love your eyebrows and eyes!!

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u/rodolfofranco 13h ago

Nevermind bro!... go to fix you beard... and youll look awesome!

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u/Catgirl_Male_Edition 10h ago

Yeah ive been letting my beard go for a while admittedly

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u/saadmaan9 13h ago

Just gotta get the soldiers! Lookin good tho :)

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u/Catgirl_Male_Edition 10h ago

Whats that mean

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u/yells_at_bugs 13h ago

No, you look fierce.

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u/NeverEnoughSunlight 13h ago

You could have waited but it doesn't look bad, either

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u/VanillaSilver_92 13h ago

You don’t look silly at all, don’t worry. But in your case I have to admit that you also didn’t look silly before. Maybe you could have rocked your previous hairstyle for some more years

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u/RealRockaRolla 13h ago

I think you look good either way.

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u/wegaf_butok-_- 12h ago

Take a 1 or 2 to it and it would look 1000% better.

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u/Catgirl_Male_Edition 10h ago

You mean like leaving some stubble?

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u/IndependentLove2292 12h ago

Nah. You made the right call. people who lose it at the back can hold longer. Your hairline was making a full retreat. Bald with beard is the right look. 

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u/Major_Guarantee7827 12h ago

I looks good to me.

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u/Gigalagaki 12h ago

Perfection my man. You'll get used to it. It looks great!!!

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u/DouglasS71 12h ago

OP I emphasize with you. I used to work the night shift exclusively. Everything was still on day shift. I’ve had that ‘pool room complexion’ for years. Get your rest when you can, and don’t sweat the small stuff. You look great! Like others have said, you’re just not used to being bald yet. Give it a few weeks, and I think you’ll be okay with it. Smile brother. Things will improve!

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u/AboveGroundPoolQueen 11h ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/FbiHr2hRT9Fa69SanF
You look fantastic! Really good looking. I might tweak the shape of your beard a little bit, but I don’t know how to give advice on that.

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u/Short-Shopping3197 Bald - Man 11h ago

That vest is incredible

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u/Catgirl_Male_Edition 10h ago

Lol third comment about my tank top but so far this is the only positive one. Appreciate it, I like this shirt a lot xD

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u/Strong-Effort71 10h ago

You don’t look silly. You look Amazeballs!

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u/Gemini-Moon522 9h ago

You look good. Tired, but good.

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u/Fantastic_Pen8076 8h ago

Should have kept the hair bro. Your line wasn’t even that far back yet

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u/New_Acanthaceae4612 8h ago

I think you had a glow up! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 looks great

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u/SGTShizzle 7h ago

You and I have a similarly shaped face. I thinned the beard on the sides. Otherwise good job man!

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u/RockyLeal 6h ago

I would keep the hair and shave the beard. And wear a shirt.

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u/bboeger 3h ago

You're good. trim the sides of the bear a bit to experiment, maybe a faded look. might look less heavier on the face

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u/fallendestiny82 2h ago

Nah man you look awesome 👌

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u/Cheers-Keith 1h ago

Shape your beard up, take a little off the sides, will help shape your overall look

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u/Drewby-DoobyDoo 1h ago

Handsome as hell, sir. Get some sleep and maybe a nice exfoliator and lotion for after shaving (only cause your scalp looks slightly irritated).

Edit: just saw your other comment about work and being a dad of 3. Godspeed, in the newborn trenches myself o7

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u/Adventurous_Ad1084 1h ago

You certainly do.

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u/Terry_Madey 37m ago

That’s a cool look you have got going on there bro 👊🏽

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u/FuredoKrueger 17m ago

Silly? Not at all!! Looking good brother, it suits you!!

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u/mrgarrettscott 13h ago

Embracing the inevitable is always better than holding on. Once you feel good and wear the bald head like a boss, others will feel that energy instead of the guy who feels feels silly.

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u/raynedrop_64 13h ago

Yes!! Much improved!

Have you considered a goatee?

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u/Catgirl_Male_Edition 10h ago

Nah I prefer having a bushier beard. Goatees arent my thing