this is going to be a bit long hehe
some of y'all may recognise me from my post about being someone's SP, now I think it's time for me to talk about my own experience with manifesting an SP/obsession subliminals
a few years ago, I was a virgin who'd never dated (I was well into my 20s btw) . i always hoped and prayed id find someone who was right for me and would treat me like nothing else mattered to them. lo & behold, I came across a man like that. from the very beginning, he was the greenest of green flags and was serious about the relationship. we started living together maybe a month or so into the relationship.
UNTIL this point, i did not listen to any subliminals regarding SP/love/obsession etc. things just unfolded naturally and I should have left it at that
we had a solid and healthy relationship. he never let me do the cleaning in the house, always fed me first while we ate, always prioritized my likes & dislikes, would make me breakfast before he went to work etc (I could go on but he was a green forest). Now perhaps because this was my first ever relationship and everything felt too good to be true etc, I started listening to love & obsession subliminals just to make sure that he'd keep treating me this way and that we'd be together forever. I did it for "maintenance" purposes.
But boy oh boy did it backfire 💀💀💀💀
He loved me with an intensity from the very beginning. Some would call it the honeymoon phase or whatever. But point is, he was already very deeply in love with me. HOWEVER, the obsession subs made things a bit extreme 💀
If he left the house to go to the gym in the morning while I was still sleeping, he wanted to lock the door from outside and leave 💀 He wouldn't let me answer the door if we had any deliveries/couriers etc because he didn't want another man to look at me 💀 He hated it if I spoke to any other man, even if he was our 50 year old watchman 💀 If he was working from home in the living room, he wanted me to also chill on the couch or whatever bc he wanted to ALWAYS be near me 💀 if he was clingy before, he was 100x clingier now 💀 We lived in the same house and he didn't like it if I was in the other room even lol 😭😭😭 He wouldn't even go to his barber without taking me along with him 😭😭😭 It got extremely suffocating after a few months. Initially, I had no idea why he became soooo possessive, obsessive and clingy and then I realised that the obsession subs I listened to had worked 😭😭😭
I listened to flushes and they didn't help. Eventually his possessiveness and jealousy became intense and started creating issues. He said that I was "too innocent" and that "others will corrupt" me. For a while, I was basically under house arrest in our house. He never wanted to do anything without me. He never wanted to spend time with his friends or family etc. He had to be with me ALWAYS. The only alone time I got was in the shower 😭😭
It got incredibly frustrating for me and I started plotting my escape even though he was the nicest, sweetest guy. I got a job in a different city and somehow convinced him to let me go. And once I reached the city, I started initiating the breakup. He lost his goddamn mind and wouldn't let me end things with him. I loved him a lot and didn't want to hurt his feelings but I couldn't bear to live like a prisoner anymore and desperately needed space. I eventually had to listen to subliminals to break up and make him lose interest 🥹🥹🥹🥹
It wasn't a smooth experience and was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. I listened to a million subs to fix my relationship or have a healthy relationship but by that point things were too far gone. My mind had completely accepted the fact that this is how he is/things are and I had too much resistance trying to picture a mellow version of our relationship.
Towards the end, his behaviour to me was so derangely obsessed (he'd call me 30 times a night if I didn't answer) that despite the love I had for him, I just wanted peace and to be left alone.
I blame myself for trying to make a good thing better and turning his earnest love into something so 💀💀💀
Since then, I've never used obsession subs on anyone. That was my first and only time 😭🙏🏻
So yeah, obsession subs do work but be careful 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻