r/SipsTea 19h ago

SMH She finally realized?

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u/ivanna_suggit 12h ago

This is also why the terms “toxic femininity” and “femcels” are on the rise.

Social media and dating apps are creating a new breed of women (and sometimes men) who get bombarded with attention, compliments, and validation 24/7 online. It’s why so many are trashing men for not being good enough anymore while they’re living in a fantasy land propped up by simps, algorithms, and bots

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u/StockMotor7788 11h ago

I won’t say this is the only problem with current dating scene, but it’s a definitely on the list of 1-2 dozen things imo. 

Not a gender problem necessarily, just our current world has made it increasingly difficult for people to really connect on certain levels for some reason. 

Maybe it’s just me, but relationships just felt so different before. I often wonder if it’s because Covid era helped social media become so embedded in everyone’s lives — which sorta enforced the negative traits of media dependency encroach on personal and sociocultural aspects of our lives. Shit just doesn’t feel the same anymore. 

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u/Substantial_Maybe371 8h ago

You mean misogyny is one the rise?

And somehow women are getting blamed for people's obsession with validation from apps that were developed by tech men.

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u/Incognito8900 7h ago

Misandry, yes

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u/Substantial_Maybe371 6h ago

Let me know when misandry ever affects the legal rights of men from state to state of country to country. Men like you are confusing your hurt feelings with unequal rights. You wouldn't last a day a woman.

Social media is giving a voice to people who were unheard before and you think that is somehow affecting the legal rights of men? Oh are you upset about the legal rights men had over certain people like women?

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u/Incognito8900 4h ago

Yeah, you sound like a bitter misandrist

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u/ivanna_suggit 4h ago

lol, no one mentioned legal rights except you. You’re arguing against a straw man. Give misandry a Google before you give another Ted talk no one’s interested in

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u/ExEdge8784 11h ago

This gender war slop is so stupid