r/HonestHotTakes 21d ago

Transgender topic [Please read]

368 Upvotes

The topic of transgender people has completely flooded this sub and that’s not what we’re here for. We are here for healthy discussions about hot takes. Wanting to take rights away from a group of people is not a hot take. Trans people are people who are just doing their own thing. Some have faked being transgender for certain reasons, but most others are genuine.

A man pretending to be gay in order to get close to women is not a good man, but he also doesn’t represent the entirety of the gay community. Same with the trans cases.

There will be people who you find stupid and weird and disgusting, but you have no right to say despicable things to them. Legally, yes you have free speech. But have some morals and decorum.

Transgender posts are now restricted to this space only. Do not report people who calmly say they disagree with your beliefs. Only report those who are insulting.


r/HonestHotTakes Jul 08 '26

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r/HonestHotTakes 1h ago

casual hot take Education isn't a daycare service. Hold parents accountable for treating it like one.

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It's frustrating so deal with parents who don't care about their children's education. Their kids either run the house at home or are emotionally stunted from constantly being yelled at by their parents. The parents make no effort to give structure and guidance to their children. They treat schools like a daycare and nothing beyond that. I don't blame the kids, of course not. I'm just saying we have to start holding those kinds of parents accountable like fines or court-ordered classes.


r/HonestHotTakes 7h ago

serious hot take Australians

92 Upvotes

Okay, I’m Korean and I’ve been staying in Bali for a few weeks, and honestly, Australians have been some of the most blatantly racist people I’ve seen.

I’ve lived in the US, including very conservative states like Missouri and Florida, (I think you’ll know what I mean)
and I’ve dated people from all kinds of backgrounds too.

But man, some of the Australians hit different. Genuinely shocked me, especially because I had a pretty good impression of Australians before. Like healthy lifestyle, nature friendly, and they have a lot of Asian immigrants too. But it totally changed now.

Many Koreans say the same thing after experiencing Australians since A lot of Koreans travel in Bali and live in Australia.

Koreans talk about there are historical stereotypes about Australia’s convict origins, and they claim that racism is somehow inherited through a “bloodline.”

Why are Australians so racists? Any reasons?


r/HonestHotTakes 11h ago

casual hot take The only way a bunch of guys would rally at a courthouse for another man who claimed to be crazy after killing his 3 kids would be to get a good punch or kick at the bastard when he left the courthouse.

134 Upvotes

r/HonestHotTakes 8h ago

casual hot take Having a toddler doesn’t excuse poor supervision or disrespecting other people’s space

69 Upvotes

I’ve seen moms let their kids cross the street on their own or be glued to their phones and have their toddlers or kids walk BEHIND them (right then and there your kid could get snatched)

There’s also people who let their kids touch ANYTHING or ANYONE (heavy on the anyone part) I remember I was sitting on the bus I sat down and this toddler was roaming free on the bus there was other seats open and he was scratching my knees because he wanted my seat and the mom straight up said “sorry he’s just a kid” BROO

And when they let their kids have their iPads FULL volume in public places and mom or dad is glued to the phone (it’s always the parents and their phones)



r/HonestHotTakes 1h ago

Reddit memes like r/memes and r/funny are undoubtedly the most unfunny thing I’ve graced my eyes apon

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I understand relating to text, but I feel like these memes are just so copy and paste, and they are literally all the same. I do understand like the expression part where it’s like that but I swear 90% of the people who post memes are literally just doing it for upvotes. I’m sorry, but I just genuinely don’t understand how you can laugh at a piece of text.

Just imagine you’re sitting in your room all alone and you’re like ‘nah boi this meme is so dank’ like I feel like I get secondhand embarrassment don’t lie.


r/HonestHotTakes 10h ago

We are too obsessed with labels in society.

34 Upvotes

First off, this is not intended to be pointing a hateful finger at anyone. This is general, I know, and I'm not saying labels are a bad thing at all—many are even necessary, like medical diagnoses to receive the care you need. I'm talking about how we tend to label to the point where people don't feel like they can be anything BUT whatever stickers are slapped on. And it's not just people being labeled by others, but mostly people doing it to themselves. Like "I need to know which group I fit into, please affirm that I'm one of you," or "since you're like this, you must be XYZ." And then you conform to whatever you are told/think you are.

It feels like in the pursuit of freedom of expression we've ended up placing ourselves into even smaller boxes. I'm not giving many specifics because I want to know if anyone else has noticed this or not.


r/HonestHotTakes 21h ago

serious hot take Restaurants should take the tails off of shrimp so I don’t have to dig my fingers in my food and take them off before I eat them.

215 Upvotes

I find a lot of Chinese food and have had many shrimp scampi meals from restaurants where I’ve had to take the tails off myself sticking my fingers in my food, and it doesn’t matter if I request the tails off or not. I don’t understand why they do this.

Now if it’s on the plate that I can eat like a finger food then that makes sense. But in my pasta or already in a saucy rice meal, you’re just fucking with my emotions at this point. It’s sadistic😭


r/HonestHotTakes 14h ago

casual hot take We need to bring back throwing tomatoes at some people.

46 Upvotes

There is no more public decency and people think they can just do whatever they want these days


r/HonestHotTakes 11h ago

serious hot take I think The 48 Laws of Power is mostly a middle-manager power fantasy

25 Upvotes

Hear me out.

The funniest thing about The 48 Laws of Power is that the people most obsessed with it are usually not actually powerful.

If you're genuinely at the bottom of the hierarchy, you often don't give enough of a fuck to spend your life calculating whether your coworker's compliment was a covert dominance maneuver. You clock out and go home.

If you're genuinely at the top, you generally don't need a book telling you to “never outshine the master.” You already have enough institutional, financial, social or reputational power that you can simply change the situation.

The interesting market is the middle: people with enough status to be constantly exposed to hierarchy, but not enough power to ignore it.

Middle managers. Ambitious employees. People fighting for promotions. People desperately trying to figure out why someone else got ahead.

And that's exactly why the book can become a weird psychological trap.

You read it because you're surrounded by people playing status games.

Then you start seeing everything as a status game.

Someone compliments you? Strategy.

Someone doesn't reply? Strategy.

Your boss asks how you're doing? Strategy.

A coworker gives you credit? Probably manipulation.

You stop interacting with human beings and start playing fucking Civilization against everyone in your office.

And here's the funniest part: if everyone around you reads the same book, you haven't escaped the power game. You've just created an environment where everyone is paranoid about everyone else's power games.

It's basically an arms race of insecure middle managers.

The book absolutely contains useful observations about hierarchy, incentives, reputation and manipulation. I'm not saying power dynamics aren't real.

I'm saying there's a huge difference between understanding power and becoming obsessed with performing power.


r/HonestHotTakes 11h ago

hot take, harshly criticise me for it! hottest take ever: bubblegum flavoured things are ass

19 Upvotes

i’m gonna say this because i’ve had personal trauma with bubblegum flavoured foodstuffs.

i had a bubblegum gelato whilst having norovirus and i was like 8 at the time, and within a few hours i felt really nauseous and went to the toilet and i ended up puking in the bathtub, and i can even remember how fucking electric blue it was, and it had these tiny fucking chinese takeout bits inside and it was so horrible


r/HonestHotTakes 16h ago

cold take hot take: cottage cheese fucking sucks

40 Upvotes

it tastes like shit, is mushy and is just eugh


r/HonestHotTakes 10h ago

The iPhone and its consequences have become a disaster for the human race

14 Upvotes

Dunno if this is actually a hot take, and i might sound like a boomer/luddite, but the smartphone has had and will continue to have terrible effects on society as a whole. 

People are more isolated than ever, while ironically being able to connect with people across the globe. People’s social skills are going to shit because there is no need to be social anymore. It’s too easy to go a full day without speaking with a single person, even while in public, because of smartphones. Basically anything you HAD to do before can be done on your phone now. You dont ever have to leave your house if you dont want to. And more and more people dont want to, because why would they? Going out takes effort. I can get groceries or food delivered, i can have “socialization” through various channels online. To find dates, apps are a lot less effort than trying to meet someone organically. There’s an insane amount of pornography which is easier to access than ever before, which stifles the desire to have sex, which is why a lot of people would go to clubs or bars. You dont need to go to a casino to gamble, you can do it on your phone now. Short form videos destroy attention spans and give you constant dopamine which makes them insanely addictive and makes it harder to find motivation to engage in hobbies. Even something as innocuous as google/apple maps has made asking for directions a thing of the past, which is an obvious “improvement” but those little social interactions are a thing of the past; people are losing those bits of humanity. People are afraid of being themselves in public because there is a constant fear of being filmed and posted online. 

Everything and everyone now just feels cold, sterile and inauthentic. Everyone is glued to their phone; young, old, pretty, ugly, extraverts, introverts, EVERYONE. Companies are profiting hugely because of this and are fueling the demise of society. The problem now is that there is no going back, people are so addicted now that living without a smartphone is quite difficult as it’s almost become a necessity. I dont see how this can get better, people are more lonely and not trusting of others, and bad actors are taking advantage of this for profit which means it’s only going to get worse. 


r/HonestHotTakes 10h ago

serious hot take Futurologist bots are feeding you Universal Basic Income propaganda so AI tech elites can starve you out without a fight.

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Every time AI disrupts an industry, the futurology and accelerationist subs flood with the same pathetic coping mechanism: "It’s fine if AI takes all our jobs, the government will just give us UBI!"

Are you people completely brain-dead?

Look out your window right now. There are literally millions of homeless, jobless, and destitute people living on the streets worldwide today. Where is their magic UBI? Where is the government stepping in with free money and a hug? Oh wait—it doesn't exist. Society ignores them, criminalizes them, or tells them to pull themselves up by their bootstraps.

What makes you think OpenAI or a multi-trillion-dollar corporation is going to lobby Congress to tax their profits so you can sit at home playing video games on a government-funded allowance?

The tech elites aren't building a post-scarcity utopia; they are building tools to eliminate their single biggest expense: YOU.

If you surrender your only leverage—your actual ability to produce value—you aren't getting a free monthly check. You're getting left behind to rot while a handful of CEOs hoard 99% of global wealth. Stop buying the digital opium. UBI is a fairytale fed to middle-management dorks so they don't revolt while being replaced by a prompt.


r/HonestHotTakes 3h ago

serious hot take I don’t like that something being realistic means it’s gonna be depressing

3 Upvotes

I’ll be honest, I just finished watching penguin midnight so this is largely about that. Voice acting was good, animation was great, well written, I’m just in a bad space mentally

I get it, real life is depressing, not everything works out. But I just don’t personally feel good while consuming it, like I know life sucks, why do I need to be reminded of it? Bittersweet endings can be fine, but sometimes imo they feel more bitter than sweet. I want to at least feel somewhat ok by the end of things I consume. I know this is kind of a childish complaint and I’m sorry


r/HonestHotTakes 3h ago

casual hot take Trolls spoil the sanctity of online spaces

4 Upvotes

Especially beware of those self identified creatures that call themselves as "incels and femcels".

Such creatures spew nothing but toxic venom.

Stay far from it, if you do happen to spot one.


r/HonestHotTakes 6h ago

Ai will not take over the world

5 Upvotes

Think about it, we all people have brains and ai Are just robots, and were the one who are in control whether we stop ai or not, Humans stay in control of artificial intelligence. Plus there is no way a piece of clanker will kill us that's like impossible? It's just a computer wasting water, not trying to get jumped but please y'all are overreacting sometimes. It's our own choice if we stop using ai, but we all know that some people wouldn't stop using it so we have no choice anyway. How about we think about the climate change and economy? Thats the real issues. We do not just focus on ai because that computer wouldn't possibly do anything besides giving advice or answering your questions, taking jobs? Theres a lot of jobs that NEEDS humans to work to. So not all jobs are gonna take over by ai. I mean I would like to hear y'all opinions, not that I wanna get jumped because I'm obviously not ragebaiting anyone. Just stating a hot take and my thoughts. EDIT: though it is true that it would make humans dumber. Which is also a problem, (got this from one comment!)


r/HonestHotTakes 7h ago

casual hot take the internet has the fakest morality when it comes to parenting.

5 Upvotes

When a kid is entitled, disrespectful, can’t handle being told no, or acts completely out of control, everyone says “where are the parents?” and blames them for not teaching their kid boundaries or consequences.
But then when a parent actually DOES discipline their kid or gives them consequences for shitty behavior, suddenly they’re controlling, emotionally abusive, or “creating trauma.”
So which one is it?
Parents are expected to raise respectful, responsible adults while being criticized for doing half the things required to teach a child respect and responsibility.
And somehow parents are also expected to sacrifice their entire lives for their kids, while being told they shouldn’t have much authority over how they actually raise them.
Obviously abusive parenting exists and some parents absolutely deserve to be called out. But a kid being upset with their parent doesn’t automatically mean the parent did something wrong. Sometimes they’re upset because they got told no. Sometimes they deserved the consequence.
The internet basically decides who they sympathize with first and then picks whatever parenting philosophy makes that person the victim.
You can’t shame parents for raising spoiled kids and then shame them every time they refuse to coddle one.


r/HonestHotTakes 1d ago

casual hot take Babies crying on planes isn’t that deep

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I feel like you guys are really annoying when it comes to this subject. Babies are going to cry. A lot of people like to say well why are you taking a baby on a plane? you don’t know what’s going on, maybe they’re flying to another state for a funeral or someone’s in the hospital. I never judge people who have crying babies because being on a plane as a grown adult woman is scary enough imagine what a baby‘s feeling.
Now if it’s like a toddler who is just running up and down the halls and the parents aren’t doing anything that is one thing but babies can’t tell you what they want so they’re gonna cry! And 9/10 the parents are more stressed out than you. But seriously if it’s not big of an issue, just bring headphones or don’t fly like I don’t understand why this is so annoying to some people hahah.
Again, i do understand if it’s like a toddler or a child kicking your seat running screaming that is ANNOYING especially if the parents aren’t doing anything. I hate parents like this bc why aren’t you disciplining your child 😩


r/HonestHotTakes 8h ago

A lot of people

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don’t really love anyone but themselves. They are selfish and only do things that are nice to SEEM nice. My realization came after joining a church then learning that everyone in it was totally fake. Also I realized a lot of narcissists exist. I was walking through life assuming everyone had love to give and boy was I shocked when it was all ulterior motives and self interest.


r/HonestHotTakes 13h ago

casual hot take SOME parents are a bit selfish

11 Upvotes

some parents are a bit selfish when they experiment names for their children. I understand that it’s their child that they creatures, but u also gotta think about the child’s future. like why would you name your son “Joannes Chrysostomus Wolfgangus Theophilus Mozart”.


r/HonestHotTakes 4h ago

Being shameless is a good thing.

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People who are successful in life have little to no shame. A perfect example are politicians, just look at Donald Trump. The guy is walking around on diapers, doing blasphemy by depicting himself as Jesus Christ. Going around renaming random lakes. Dude is a complete joke. He's hated by almost everyone in the world except for his loyal subjects. Do u really think he cares about it? He's making tons of money and has almost infinite power. He's enjoying his life as much as he can.

Same for people like Bonnie Blue, many women never get into the adult entertainment industry because they're too shy and shameful. Meanwhile this woman don't give a crap and is making tons of money. She don't care what others think about her.

Successful people don't care about other. They just do what they must and then reap the benefits. This is why they end up becoming world leaders and desired by countless men.


r/HonestHotTakes 10h ago

Happiness/hopfulness is "offensive" and often shamed.

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People don’t actually seem to want to see people happy these days, and I find that fascinating because there is so much talk about “fighting” for the good of humanity, about making people’s lives better and happier. Yet when someone is genuinely happy, optimistic, or hopeful about life and what it can be, they are so often dismissed as privileged, detached, ignorant, or, of course, immoral.

There seems to be an underlying belief that if you are happy, and openly admit to experiencing joy or optimism about life (or God forbid humanity to some extent), you must somehow be failing to acknowledge the suffering of others. And if acknowledging suffering is a moral obligation, then happiness itself becomes suspicious. In order for everyone’s suffering to be adequately recognized, no one should be happy.... because what kind of monster is happy when other people suffer.

You are either immoral for being happy in the face of someone else’s suffering, or you are too stupid, privileged, or detached to understand that suffering exists in the first place. Either way, your happiness is put on trial.

And I think that is what bothers me most... we have somehow turned happiness into something people feel they need to justify. We shame people out of their own joy because their optimism is interpreted as indifference.

Sometimes it feels less like we are fighting to make people happier and more like we are fighting over who is allowed to be happy. I have often felt shame for admitting my joy or optimism... especially here on reddit.


r/HonestHotTakes 20h ago

cold take People on AI relationship subreddit are the most delusional people on the planet and need professional help

34 Upvotes

Anyone who says they are in love with AI is delusional and needs professional help.