r/CalgarySocialClub Nov 03 '21

Interacting with People Online and IRL.

51 Upvotes

Hello All,

Most people coming to this subreddit are looking to make some new friends and join a community, I've met nearly all of my adult friends in this subreddit and I hope everyone can find friends as well.

With that said, I do want to warn everyone to take caution in meeting strangers from the internet alone. We've had reports of an abusive and dangerous user and just want to warn everyone here about that. We are still on the internet and anyone could be at the other end.

Here are some tips to help keep people safe.

  1. The Buddy System: Don't meet anyone from the internet alone. We recommend to bring a friend or create an event that is out in public with many people.
  2. This isn't Tinder: Please don't attempt to find a romantic partner or casual hookup here.
  3. Beware of Pressure: If someone is pressuring you to meet alone, do NOT meet them, they are most likely not looking to have a safe and friendly time.

If anyone has any more tips to stay safe while meeting new people IRL, please share them. I'll add any good tips to this post.

My intention isn't to scare people or discourage them from trying to post or make friends, I know it can be tough. All of us working together can create a safer space for everyone. This helped me at a very important time in my life and I really hope it can do the same for everyone here.


r/CalgarySocialClub 4h ago

Looking for 30+ friends in Calgary!

2 Upvotes

(33M) I’ve been living in Calgary for about a year, but because work has kept me on the road so much, I’m realizing I haven’t really had the chance to settle in and make the city my home.

Most of my hobbies are pretty solitary for now, fitness, reading about random topics, going for walks and scenic drives, so I’d love to branch out and meet some people.

I’m at a point where I’d really like to build a sense of community here. Most of my colleagues are abroad, so I don’t have much of a work circle in Calgary either. It would be great to meet people for coffee or a drink, go for a walk, try something new, or just have a genuine conversation.

I’m naturally curious and enjoy conversations that wander into unexpected topics, different perspectives, and stories about lives very different from my own.

I’m not looking for anything romantic, just hoping to meet a few good people whose company and conversation I genuinely enjoy.

If this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message!


r/CalgarySocialClub 11h ago

Looking for a small squash group 🏸

6 Upvotes

Trying to play squash more regularly but don’t really have a consistent group to play with.

Thought it could be fun to get a small group going where we can rotate games depending on who’s free.

I only started playing last year, so definitely not a pro, but I’d say I’m decent and mostly looking for good games + good vibes.

Anyone interested?


r/CalgarySocialClub 10h ago

19M - Looking for any friends 😭

4 Upvotes

Moved to Calgary over the summer and as September begins, I’m slowly realizing I need to meet some new faces around here 💀

I particularly enjoy collecting and reading comics and manga, creating goofy art and going out on random side quests 😭 If any of that sounds interesting and y’all want somebody to hang out with, please add me and I’ll respond very shortly!! 🙏🙏🙏

(Don’t matter who you are as long as you’re of similar age, I’m 19!)


r/CalgarySocialClub 1d ago

Looking for female players to join our coed soccer team!

4 Upvotes

Looking for female players to join our coed soccer team!

Hey everyone!

We are looking for a few female players to join our coed soccer team.

Here are the quick details:

Location: Maxwell soccer center

Frequency: Once a week

Age Group: Mostly under 40

Skill Level: Level is about div 3. We definitely play to win and like a good match, but it’s not super competitive or aggressive. Good vibes first!

Schedule: We play year-round, so if you're looking for a consistent team to stay with season after season, you'll have a home here.

Drop a comment below or send me a DM with a bit about your soccer experience if you're interested!


r/CalgarySocialClub 1d ago

New to Calgary and looking to make some friends!

8 Upvotes

Hey everyone! 👋

I’m a 26-year-old guy and I’ve been in Calgary for 3 days now. I’m staying here for a few months for now, but I’m even considering staying for up to a year.

I’d really like to meet some new people and make the most of my time in Calgary! I enjoy playing cards and board games, going for walks, getting coffee, and spending time outdoors and in nature. I’m also a big sports fan — especially NHL, NFL and soccer.

I also enjoy going to bars, playing video games, or just hanging out and having a good conversation. My English is okay, but definitely not perfect yet, so please bear with me.

I’m pretty open-minded and always happy to meet new people. I don’t really care about gender or age. I’m just looking for nice people to hang out with and have some fun experiences in Calgary.

If anyone wants to meet up, grab a coffee, go for a walk, play some games, watch sports, go to a bar, or just explore the city together, feel free to message me! :)

I’d love to make some good memories here and meet some cool people along the way!


r/CalgarySocialClub 1d ago

28F looking for friends!

8 Upvotes

Hello! I (28F) moved to Calgary about a year ago and I’m interested in making more friends.

I spend my free time skiing (backcountry & resort), rock climbing (indoor & outdoor) and hiking/backpacking. Shoot me a message if you have similar hobbies! :)


r/CalgarySocialClub 1d ago

Cigarette Run Club is back for week #3 today

13 Upvotes

This started off as a complete joke but has quickly become way more successful that I could have ever imagined. Yesterday we were featured on both CTV and Virgin Radio🤣 If you’ve been meaning to get out of the house and meet some friends this is a great opportunity. The community we’re building is amazing.

So come bring your favourite pack of smokes and meet us at 6:30PM in Barb Scott Park for a fun 5k run followed by volleyball🏐, spikeball🎾, free refreshments, and a chill hangout with amazing people!!!

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Dcl2Ru3Bb-P/?igsi=dXNsZWxkZmNuZTd6


r/CalgarySocialClub 2d ago

56M on paper, younger at heart—Calgary guy looking for genuine friends and good energy

21 Upvotes

Hey Calgary! Im a 56M, but very much younger at heart in personality, interests, humour, and energy. I’m a slightly overthinking, very social guy who’s trying to build a friend group that actually feels like a friend group. I’m good at one-on-one conversations, terrible at “let’s all hang out vaguely sometime” energy, and I value friendships where the effort feels mutual.

I’ve had a more active social life before, and I’m hoping to get back to that—getting out, trying things, having people to message during the week, and making plans that actually turn into real-life hangouts. I tend to connect with people who are open-minded, enjoy life, and can match my energy—or at least appreciate it without judging the fact that I’m still excited about things. LOL.

I’m into consumer tech—yes, I will happily debate Samsung versus anything else—home workouts, sports trivia, Xbox gaming, walking around the city, and the kind of movies and shows that make you think for three days afterward: Star Wars, DC/Marvel, sci-fi, and horror/thrillers. I also enjoy late-night “what even is friendship?” conversations that probably should have happened in therapy.

What I’m looking for:

People in or near Calgary who want to meet up in real life, not only chat forever online

Folks who are okay with a mix of goofy humour and genuinely reflective conversations

Reciprocal energy: if I message, I’d love a reply; if we make plans, I’d love them to mostly happen

People who are open to low-pressure hangouts, but also getting out socially once we know we click—coffee, food, walks, movies, casual events, live music, karaoke, or finding something new to do around the city

If you’re also trying to build or rebuild your social circle, feel free to DM me with where you are in Calgary, what you’re into, and what a good first hangout looks like for you. A random conversation starter, a meme, or a strong opinion about the best Star Wars movie also works.


r/CalgarySocialClub 2d ago

Outdoor Swing Dance Social on Tuesday, Sept 8th at the Riley Park Stage!

12 Upvotes

No partner or experience needed! Join us for a drop-in beginner Lindy Hop lesson before our social dance to help you get started.

6:30 PM – Drop-in Beginner Lindy Hop Lesson
7:30 PM – DJ'd Social Dance

Pay what you can. A $5 suggested donation helps us cover the cost of running these events, but no one will be turned away if they can't donate.

Be sure to wear comfortable shoes that won't fly off your feet (sandals and slides aren't recommended!).

Bring a friend, and come enjoy an evening of dancing, meeting new people, and trying something new!


r/CalgarySocialClub 2d ago

26F Looking for valorant / gaming friends

10 Upvotes

i am HORRIBLE with all games. that doesn’t stop me though. LOL

aside from that i’m pretty social and outgoing. i like bars and nightclubs, so we can hangout there too. i like walking and coffee shops and yapping.

i just want friends i can play games with + meet IRL too!

talk soon! :)


r/CalgarySocialClub 2d ago

31 M4A- PLAY/LEARN MTG

6 Upvotes

So this is going to be a bit funny to bare with me here.

Im new to MTG like green green

Im a long time gym rat and work weird shifts.

Comming october im going to be looking for

Places that have good prices for commander decks

Places that i can meet/play/ learn from

Just likeminded people

So during the day and laaaate at night (1-4 am)

Id be happy to mingle too and learn from watching and what not if teaching someone the mechanics in live play gets annoying


r/CalgarySocialClub 2d ago

Any late 20's/early 30's people into mountain biking and urban freeride? E-mtb welcome.

2 Upvotes

Let's go ride. I'm located in the central NW of the city. I'm also into plane spotting. Let's rock !


r/CalgarySocialClub 3d ago

26f looking for long-term friendship 🫶🏼

43 Upvotes

Hey! My partner and I moved to Calgary from England about four years ago and I’ve struggled to make long-term local connections! I’ve been accidentally making friends who are also here from England and a lot of them have since gone home.

I’m into reading, board and video games, travelling, music, anywhere with a nice view! And I’m genuinely down for any kind of friendship…‘adventure’ friends or ‘come over and doom scroll together’ friends 🤣

I don’t really drink but I’m up for sober nights out, I’m a huge advocate for women’s football and women in general.

I’m a bit shy but can really keep a conversation flowing once it gets started!

I’ve been trying to find ‘my girls’ for a really long time 💕


r/CalgarySocialClub 3d ago

27M Looking for his group

8 Upvotes

I've struggled both my child and adult life to make friends, just how I am, but it doesn't matter to me what gender you are, just as long as you're over 21 and under 40 we'll vibe alright.

mostly awkward at first but I open up relatively quickly, just trying to find some solid people to offer me some direction in life

open to do anything with anyone lol

cheers to the city i've called home for the last 20 years!


r/CalgarySocialClub 3d ago

[25M] looking for people to be friends with.

8 Upvotes

I just moved to Calgary 3 days ago and I’ve been working nonstop, getting lonely in this big city.

I’m looking for friends (male and female) to hangout with, I’m a big time nerd, I love playing Dungeons and Dragons, I also play a lot of online games but I also have my outdoorsy side, I like going on walks and generally just spending time out in nature.

420 friendly if that’s a bonus for you guys and just looking for friends, I’m open to getting in a relationship but right now I feel like I need friends, romantic relationships can wait.


r/CalgarySocialClub 3d ago

Looking to make friends in Calgary (Male and Female)

20 Upvotes

28Year old. Been here few years, I came from England with my girlfriend. Been a struggle to make friends! I like to game, drinks and smoke 😂 I’m outdoorsy and love a good board game or watching movies. Hoping to make friends before my bday in December. I’ve not actually been out to celebrate since I’ve been here lol


r/CalgarySocialClub 3d ago

New comers

4 Upvotes

Hi there! I’m 20 years old and from Ukraine. I’m looking to make friends here—any age, guy or girl; I’m happy to chat with anyone


r/CalgarySocialClub 3d ago

Any thoughtful, spiritual, philosophical type people wanna grab a bite?

7 Upvotes

Can stare at an object for 10mins straight because you're so deeply tangled in your own head unknotting the mysteries of life? Yay maybe we'll get along.

Let's decide on a good food place and just compare beliefs.

Not looking for debates per say.. just open minded people who also like learning from others.

I'm a 30 yr old dude from Africa ✌️


r/CalgarySocialClub 2d ago

Sept 1: Harry Potter themed events?

0 Upvotes

So - I’m a big Harry Potter fan! And since it is September 1st I was wondering if there are any events happening around the city?

I know there is “The Potion Room” in Inglewood that is Harry Potter themed. But I was curious about any other places are having anything or if a bunch of y’all wanted to get together for movie night? ✨💜


r/CalgarySocialClub 4d ago

27F Edmonton but looking for Alberta buddies

13 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I am from EDMONTON and that is where I live. So you might be wondering what I am doing here haha. I like connecting with fellow Albertans especially if we have stuff in common. A lot of my friends after uni moved to different parts of Alberta, so I am used to distance friendships.

About me: 27F from Alberta, looking for long-term daily chat buddies who are down to be long-term genuine friends if we click. Also, I'm Muslim which just means I am sober, but hey I will still do karoke!

I love tv shows, especially cartoons, cozy mysteries (mostly British), board games, fashion, arts and crafts, home decor, and following the NHL. I miss the world cup...like a lot. I am not really outdoorsy and love city living.

I am open to anyone in Alberta preferably around my age like 26 to 33 preferred

In your first message please let me know if you're from Alberta, your age, and gender.

Let's connect!


r/CalgarySocialClub 4d ago

30F/3OM looking for couple friends for board games & hangouts!

13 Upvotes

Hi everyone! My husband and I are looking to make some new friends in Calgary for double dates, board game nights, easy hiking, or exploring the city.
We have a 2-year-old, but we're open to hanging out with anyone (kids or no kids!). If you're into casual gaming, going to events, or just grabbing a drink and chilling, send a DM!


r/CalgarySocialClub 4d ago

Is this you?

18 Upvotes

I’ve lost over 100 lbs in the last year and a half. And I’m still not done.

I know what it’s like to struggle with food.

I know what it’s like to look at how far you have to go and think it’s just too much.

I know what it’s like to tell yourself:

“I’ll start Monday.”

“I’ll start next week.”

“I’ll start when life settles down.”

“I’ll start when I’m ready.”

The problem is, the perfect time never really comes.

At some point, you have to create your own conditions and just start.

That’s what I had to do.

I’m over 100 lbs down now, but I’m still on my own journey. I’m still working on myself, still learning, still chasing my own goals. I’m not standing at the finish line telling everyone else how easy it was.

I’m someone who’s been through it, is still going through it, and has gotten far enough that I can start helping other people with what I’ve learned along the way.

And that’s genuinely what I want to do.

Maybe you want to lose 100 lbs. Maybe you want to lose 20. Maybe you want to build muscle, get stronger, fix your relationship with food, or just finally feel comfortable walking into a gym.

Everyone’s starting point is different.

But everybody has one.

So if you’ve been waiting for a sign, maybe ask yourself:

When is enough, enough?

September starts tomorrow. There are four months left in 2026.

You don't need to completely change your life by January.

But imagine where you could be if you finally started now.

If you’re in Calgary and you’ve been wanting to start but genuinely don’t know where to begin, reach out. I’d love to help.

Everybody starts somewhere. The key is actually starting.


r/CalgarySocialClub 4d ago

Things to do in Calgary that aren’t alcohol centric

14 Upvotes

I just moved to Calgary. I don’t know too many people here. Searching for ways to meet people that doesn’t require going to a bar. I like a couple beers just as much as the next guy, but need to broaden my horizons 😊.


r/CalgarySocialClub 5d ago

Hey! I’m 27 and from Germany, and I’m planning to move to Calgary in 2027.

14 Upvotes

I thought it would be cool to already get to know some people before I move over. I’m into skateboarding, snowboarding, hiking, gaming and music, and I’m always down for trying new stuff.
Would be nice to meet some people around my age, chat a bit and maybe hang out once I’m in Calgary.