r/BenignExistence 18h ago

10 seconds that made my day, and then another 10 seconds that made my day and someone else's

1.6k Upvotes

1st smile ; I'm leaving my physical therapy appointment, and I was wearing a silly tank top that says "Built in the Sixties, Original and Unrestored. Some Parts Still in Working Order" I pass the front desk where a woman was waiting near it in a wheelchair. She happily said "Yay for the sixties!" I gave her a thumbs up and a "hooyah" she said "61 here" and I answered "62 here" we high fived like the old ladies we are and shared a smile.

2nd smile; While sitting at a light, (in surprisingly low traffic for the time of day), I checked my rear view as one does, and behind me is a young man driving, and a lady quite a few years older than me was talking excitedly and pointing to the back of my car, moving her forearm back and forth like a windshield wiper. I drive a small SUV, and on the back window I have a cat decal, and its tail is on the wiper. I knew :) we had plenty of time before the light changed, so I switched on my rear wiper for a few seconds. The young man saw and pointed it out to her, and she laughed and literally clapped her hands, a huge smile. I waved at them and she waved back still smiling. I switched off the wiper and went on my way.

If feels nice to make people smile.


r/BenignExistence 21h ago

I got the loveliest call today - by accident

1.2k Upvotes

Today my phone rang at work, but I couldn't answer it so I just meant to let it go to voicemail, to deal with it later. No voicemail came, so I researched the number, found nothing and daringly called back. No answer...

Then my phone rang again, same number, and it was my wonderful coworker who had retired five years ago. We worked in the same room in a daycare, and I have since opened my own inhome daycare. She apologised profusely for not having deleted my number and told me she had meant to call her husband, whose name is right next to mine in her phone. We chatted for a bit and then decided not to delete any numbers but instead meet for coffee for a proper catch up!

It made me so happy to hear her voice - I have learned so much from her and think of her regularly. I'm just surprised she hasn't accidentally called me much earlier...

Edit: Thank you, anonymous friend, for the award! πŸ’›


r/BenignExistence 18h ago

me & my cats against the world or should I say againsts daily life obstacles of a grown single & alone adult.

42 Upvotes

i have 2 cats which was the babies from my very first cat (crossed the rainbow bridge) I can say that my life was somehow a series of misfortunes, a little ups but mostly downs. But somehow my cats is like a lifeline to me. I have really worst times in life where I just wish to stop existing but my cats are such angels in disguise covered with fur. No matter how difficult things could get as long as my cats have their kibbles & few wet tunajelly. I be happy.

PS: I live in Philippines and know how bad inflation around the world is going on. Being below the middleclass kind of living iykyk


r/BenignExistence 22h ago

Perfume samples pages as book marks

40 Upvotes

Now my book smells nice :)


r/BenignExistence 15h ago

Opened my door at the same time as my partner opened his door.

7 Upvotes

Just a cute coincidence that made both of us smile! πŸ’œ